I
have been a fan of Jack Rushton for some time, but
this message may be his most life altering message, at least the impact it had
on me was quite profound and the Spirit confirmed that we ought to read,
ponder, copy, teach and re-teach this message to ourselves, our families and in
the classroom when we teach. Our lives ought to attempt to emulate his
message and practice it and think it and rehearse it and memorize the
‘punch line’ - I think you get my
point! I really like this message!! I have believed this all my
life. I have tried to teach it all my life. I have tried to live it all
my life and wish I could say I had mastered it to the point that my life was an
example of this message – I’ve fallen short on many occasions
and on several fronts, but that doesn’t mean that it has not been one of
my primary goals. Anyway, his message is now yours and for you to ponder
and decide whether you – and yours - are
living and acting and teaching like the Peasant or the King???
Thanks
Jack for a classic.
Bro
Jim
From: Jack Rushton
[mailto:jrushton321@ca.rr.com]
Sent: Monday, December 04, 2006 6:17 PM
To: Undisclosed-Recipient:;
Subject: Observation.
December 4, 2006,
Observation:
As a 17-year-old
boy I left my home in Ruth,
Nevada and
with my good friend, Mel Walker, drove to Provo, Utah to begin my
freshman year at BYU. We moved into a room in Allen Hall, BYU student
housing, near the pizza parlor now known as the Brick Oven. My dad always
wanted to know where in the "hall" I lived and what in the
"hall" I was doing. Well, I was living on the top floor and was
associating with young men that in retrospect impacted my life for good in an
eternal sense. Living on the ground floor were three Callister
brothers from Glendale, California.
Their grandfather was Elder LeGrand Richards who
during the two years we lived in Allen Hall would come and speak to us
occasionally on a Sunday evening as a favor to his grandsons. These were
good boys who loved the Lord and whose example was worthy of emulation.
The youngest brother was named Doug and was my same age. Doug is now
Elder Douglas L. Callister of the first quorum of the
70. After he visited and spoke in our stake a few years ago I approached
him and, I'm sure it was because of the wheelchair and his having heard of my
accident, recognized me and we shared a few memories of our days living
together in Allen Hall.
Because of that
little relationship with Elder Callister I eagerly
listened to the talk he delivered at the BYU student devotional on September
19, 2006. The talk is entitled "Your Refined Celestial Home".
I am probably somewhat prejudiced, but I think this talk should be required
listening or reading for every family in the church -- especially those with
children still living at home. You can find it by clicking on
BYUbroadcasting.org and then clicking on "find a talk" and typing in
the name, "Douglas L. Callister".
It
is not my purpose to give a review of Elder Callister's
talk, but I think I can share the essence of what he had to say through an
experience Joseph Fielding Smith had with his father Joseph F. Smith many years
ago. Having recently returned from a mission to Great Britain,
young Joseph Fielding Smith was looking for some kind of employment to sustain
himself and his young family. One of the positions he was offered was a: "... permanent government position as an
inspector of pool halls, bawdy houses and other places that sold beer and
liquor, and to collect excise taxes, his territory to include Utah, Idaho and
Wyoming. The job paid quite a handsome salary and was respectable enough in nature
even though it would bring him into contact with some unsavory characters...
The good salary would certainly help Joseph to get a house built. Joseph mulled
the offer in his mind a few days... he conferred with his father about it
before making a firm decision. His father advised him to decline the offer.
"Remember this, son," he said, "the
best company is none too good for you." So Joseph declined the job,
and a few days later he received an offer he liked much better: Anthon H. Lund offered
him a staff position in the Church Historian's Office." ( Joseph Fielding Smith, John J. Stewart, Life of Joseph
Fielding Smith, 125-126.)
I
am going to take some license with Joseph F. Smith's counsel to his son.
I think Joseph was not just referring to the "company" of other
people, but also to the full spectrum of the human experience. As sons
and daughters of God "the best" in friends, education,
vocation, music, the written word, the media we permit to come into our homes
and minds, and a host of other things that could be mentioned are "none
too good for us!" Choosing "the best" will
bless our lives in mortality and prepare us one day for our eternal destiny to
become as our Heavenly Father and to feel comfortable in and enjoy our
"Refined Celestial Home."
In
concluding his talk, Elder Callister related the
following story to summarize his message to the BYU student body:
"In a make believe kingdom a make believe King and his Queen, after many
years, finally had a beautiful baby boy born into their family who would be the
heir to the throne. Not wanting to spoil the boy, and hopefully to
prepare him to be a good and just King, they secretly took him to the
countryside for a peasant couple to raise. They
were to tell him nothing of his birth and who he really was. When the boy
was 18 years old the King and Queen went to the countryside to bring their boy
home to become the next King inasmuch as his father was growing older and would
soon pass on. To their dismay they discovered that their 18 year old son
had become expert at plowing, planting, harvesting, and taking care of
livestock, but he was ill-prepared and had no vision of who he really was, and
what it would take to rule a kingdom, command armies, and meet the needs of his
subjects. Their beloved son had been raised as a peasant and had become a
peasant in spite of the royal blood that coursed through his veins."
We
have temporarily been sent away by our Heavenly Father and King -- not to be
raised as peasants -- but as princes and princesses, being refined in every way
to one day inherit our own kingdoms. During this period of training and
probation which we call mortality, truthfully, "The best... is none too
good for us!" I am afraid that in many of our homes we are raising too
many "peasants" with no vision of who they are and of their eternal
potential. A "peasant" perspective regarding life seems to dominate
our culture. You can observe it in our language, our dress, our music,
the media, and what we choose for recreation. We have been plummeting
downward from the "best" to the "mediocre" at lightning
speed. Eric Anderson spoke a profound truth when he said: "The most insidious influence on the young is not violence, drugs,
tobacco, drink or sexual perversion, but our pursuit of the trivial and our
tolerance of the third rate."
Maybe
it's because I am getting older and out of touch with reality, but I don't
enjoy much of the music I hear that has recently been written and
recorded. Does anybody like Mozart, Beethoven, Brahms, and Chopin
anymore? Are our kids being raised on musical french fries and hamburgers having their musical
pallets paralyzed, resulting in no taste for the gourmet music of the
Masters? What I'm saying about music can be applied to the media, literature,
art, architecture, and dress of our times. Listen to President Hinckley: "Let there be music in the home. If you have teenagers
who have their own recordings, you will be prone to describe the sound as
something other than music. Let them occasionally hear something better. Expose
them to it. It will speak for itself. More of appreciation will come than you
may think. It may not be spoken, but it will be felt, and its influence will
become increasingly manifest as the years pass." (Be
Thou an Example [Salt Lake City: Deseret Book, 1981], p. 56.) "Enjoy music. Not the kind that rocks and rolls, but
the music of the masters, the music that has lived through the centuries, the
music that has lifted people. If you do not have a taste for it, listen to it
thoughtfully. If you do not like it the first time, listen to it again and keep
listening. It will be something like going to the temple. The more often you
go, the more beautiful will be the experience. (Ellen Pucell Unthank Monument
Dedication, Cedar City, Utah, August 3, 1991.) "I
believe in the beauty of good music and art, of pleasing architecture, and of
good literature untainted by profanity or verbal filth. ("This I
Believe," BYU 1991-92 Devotional and Fireside Speeches, March 1, 1992, p.
78.)
I believe what
President Hinckley believes and what Joseph F. Smith taught his son -- "The
best... is none too good for you!"
Dad/Grandpa/Jack