Mountain Top History
History from President E. Bruce Preece 1975 to
1977
From E. Bruce Preece
THREE YEARS AS MISSION PRESIDENT REMEMBERED-
THE EARLY PERIOD
5055 Connaught Drive Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada. Mentioning the
mission home address seems like an appropriate way to begin this next segment of
my personal history, inasmuch as my experiences of the next three years mostly
originated here. Having kept a daily journal of my experiences as a mission
president, beginning in October of 1974, I am provided with a resource for much of the "hundredth
part" which I shall write- paraphrasing the familiar restrictive
writing lament of Book of Mormon prophets.
The recent issue, April, 1996, of Alaskan Airlines magazine contains a fine
article on the bustling metropolitan city of Vancouver. The writer states,
"Shaughnessy's curving, sun-draped streets are lined with Edwardian
mansions." The brown and white 35-room home on Connaught Drive, with its
three storied Tudor architecture, set in the heart of fashionable Shaughnessy
Heights known also for its numerous ornamental cherry and maple trees, was one
of the mansions mentioned in the article. Built in the early 1920's by Lester
Brooks of the Brooks Scanlon Lumber Empire, the home in 1927 later became the
property of a prominent Vancouver family in by the name of Hager, whose wealth
had come from the fishing industry. The LDS Church purchased the mansion for
$65,000 in 1960. Extensive renovation rendered the home suitable for use as headquarters
of the church's Alaskan-Canadian Mission and home for the mission president's
family.
Now, with a gardener, Fred Glups, to groom the grounds, a full time live-in
housekeeper, Sister Adeline Simms who would also care for our children and
Sister Edna Harnett, a full time live-in cook to prepare meals, I found living
in these luxurious surroundings quite different than to what I had been
accustomed, but confident that our family could make the adjustments necessary.
A warm spirit of love and cooperation prevailed in the home, despite the number
of and different types of personalities represented. Typical of the positive
feeling found in the home was the time when our eight year old son Stewart spoke
to his friend Derek May about our cook, "That's Sister Harnett-she's
perfection!"
We also chuckled when our 14-year-old Stephen told of an incident that
occurred at the Quilchena Middle school shortly after he enrolled. A
questionnaire he filled out asked, "How many people live in your
household?" Stephen's response of 16 required an explanation for his school
teacher. A brief description of the sprawling home might help to understand how
the 16, more or less, who lived there functioned as one big happy family, most
of the time. First there was the "Celestial Kingdom", so named by the
mission staff who occupied the top floor. Newly arrived missionaries and those
on transfer were also put up temporarily. The mission president's family
occupied most of the second floor, with a place at one end reserved for the
housekeeper. The ground or main floor provided space for the living room, dining
room, kitchen, parlor, foyer, ball room and president's office. The basement
housed the printing press, commissary, president's two assistants' office,
laundry room and living quarters for the cook. Now, Instead of the feet of
dancers of another era gliding over the parquet floor of the spacious ballroom
at social events, the feet of missionaries, priesthood leaders, and members
moved about on it, engaged in firesides, conferences, orientations, open houses,
training meetings, etc. Both Steve and Dave learned how to operate the mission
off-set printing press, located in a basement room formerly used by the former
tenant as a wine cellar, earning spending money after school, on Saturdays and
during the summer.
On occasion, while seated in my office in the mission home fronting Connaught
Drive, I would glance out the window and wonder what the tour bus driver had to
say to his riders about the mansion as it stopped each day on a tourist route of
the city. Along with my predecessors, I had hoped to one day pay the fare and
listen to his dialogue, but never seemed to find the time. At least one U.S.
President, Herbert Hoover, a friend of the Hagers along with other notables had
visited the home or had been guests of the Hagers, including John Charles Thomas
and Richard Crooks of the Metropolitan Opera. With funds that had been allocated
by the Church Missionary Department to refurnish the home, Nancy and a
professional decorator refurbished and changed the furniture soon after our
arrival.
Early on, Nancy and I decided that we would maintain an open-door policy
toward the mission home, with an open invitation to members and non-members to
visit and enjoy its facilities. We encouraged visitors to sign and offer
comments in the day book situated in the foyer to the home. We held several open
houses during our three year stay to which we invited people in the city, along
with missionary contacts, to tour the home, take part in special presentations
and enjoy refreshments in an effort to utilize the facility as a missionary
tool. I particularly enjoyed the visit one night of the world famous artist
Robert Wood, who the missionaries had stumbled on to while tracting in West
Vancouver, and had invited to the home. I greatly admired all of his paintings,
but the one entitled Owens Valley, a large print of which hung over the
fireplace in our living room, naturally had the most meaning for me. The
painting of a peaceful pastoral green valley surrounded by lofty snow capped
mountains reminded me a little of Heber Valley where we once lived. The artist
told me how he had painted the original with the aid only of a spatula, no
brushes, and had sold it for a mere few hundred dollars; a work later valued in
the tens of thousands of dollars.
At Christmas time, our life sized manger scene on the upper south wing deck
of the home along with an array of brightly colored lights on and surrounding
the mansion, drew a steady stream of passersby. Snow, on occasion, greatly
enhanced the beauty of these outdoor decorations. We put Elder Ewell (pronounced
yule) whose family at home had decorated Christmas trees commercially, in
charge of snow flocking the huge tree which then stood resplendent in the foyer
of the mission home during the holidays. As part of that first Christmas season,
we hosted a special open house with over 300 people attending, most of whom were
non-members of the church.
Shortly after arriving in the mission field, I received a call from my friend
George Durrant who at the time was serving as mission president in Kentucky.
When I asked for any advice he might have as an experienced mission president,
he told how building a swing in the front of the mission home for his children
was the first and most important thing he had done. It was George's way of
communicating to me the importance of putting first the needs of the family
before any other responsibilities of the mission. Our building a floor box
hockey set, using real but modified hockey sticks and a golf ball, for the
family and missionaries to use served as the equivalent of a swing, I believe.
Wearing one set out and having to build another later attested to the popularity
of this lively activity. (We still have a box hockey game at our home in
Vancouver, Washington!) On the down side soon after our arrival, someone stole
the children's new Schwinn bicycles that we had brought from Bend from the
mission home carport. We considered this act to somewhat carry a "welcome
to the big city", message.
Since our children had grown up in Canada, they generally did well with the
move back to B.C.; however, the mission home experience seemed particularly
difficult for Cathy, in some regards. Steve, Stew and later Karen, our Lamanite
foster daughter, seemed to enjoy living in the mission home as did David on his
holiday visits and stays from Bend during the summer months. Dave seemed to fit
comfortably with the Williams family in Bend during the school year taking part
in church and school functions. We were delighted to learn that he had been
called as an assistant to Bishop Williams in the Priest's Quorum in the Bend 1st
Ward. The children engaged in a variety of different activities during our stay
in the mission field which I will treat in more detail in the section entitled
"Family Life In The Mission Remembered." I considered ourselves a
rather typical Mormon garden variety family but certainly living in atypical
circumstances at the present time.
One morning, Elder Howard Stucki, our likable mission recorder from
Hurricane, Utah, bounded down the stairs from the mission home's Celestial
Kingdom with a letter in hand to share exciting news at the breakfast table. His
father, also with CES, had written to say that he and his wife had unexpectedly
been offered the opportunity to participate in the Israel Lands of the
Scriptures Workshop in the spring. Elder Stucki commented, "Some couple who
had planned to go had to drop out opening up the way for my parents to go."
It dawned on us that the "some couple" was Nancy and me. However we
figured that if we had to make space for someone else to go to the Holy Land, we
were happy it could be for the parents of one of our missionaries.
CHOOSING A MISSION SYMBOL REMEMBERED
Soon after getting settled in the mission field, I felt the need to discover
and adopt a mission symbol suitable for us to rally around-one that would build
unity within the mission and foster esprit d'corps with the missionaries. I made
the quest a matter of prayer. While reading section 112 of the Doctrine and
Covenants as I flew back to Vancouver from Cranbrook following a Kootenay
District Conference, I came to verses 7 and 8 which read: "I, the Lord
have a great work for thee to do, in publishing my name among the children of
men. Therefore, gird up thy loins for the work. Let thy feet be shod also, for
thou are chosen, and thy path lieth among the mountains." As I gazed
out of the plane window at the rugged towering mountains below, so
characteristic of British Columbia, I felt a warm spirit confirm this scripture
as our motto and that we should use mountains as the symbol for the mission.
I enthusiastically presented the idea to my assistants, Elders Jackson and
Deaton, who endorsed the concept wholeheartedly, as did eventually the entire
mission. By choosing lofty Mt. Assiniboine, an 11,870 foot peak located in the
eastern part of the province, as the specific mountain to feature, we took on
the name of the Mountain Top Mission. We related to a sentiment expressed by
James Outran, the first man to climb Mount Assiniboine. Said he, "there
is a wonderful fascination about mountains. Their massive grandeur, mystery of
lofty height, splendor of striking outline-craig, pinnacle and precipice-seem to
appeal both to the intellect and to the immortal soul of man and to compel a
mingling of reverence and love."
Soon most everything we did in the mission reflected the symbolism of
mountains. Our elders and sisters proudly became known as Mountain Top
missionaries; We also renamed the districts with names of local mountains and
all letters and publications bore the new symbol. Soon the elders and sisters
could be heard singing the newly composed mountain top mission song "The
Mountains" at district and zone meetings or while walking the street
tracting. Missionaries learned how to teach naturally and convincingly by a
process termed "Conquest Teaching." We also devised a plan
called "Trail to the Top" to assist missionaries to honorably
conclude their mission experience. Our mission secretary Brian Wight's artistic
mother in Los Angeles, oil painted a large picture of Mt. Assiniboine, donating
it to the mission. When completed, she and her dentist husband flew up to
Vancouver from L.A. to attend the special unveiling ceremony before hanging it
in a prominent place in the mission home. Incidentally, before leaving
California, Sister Wight had the painting appraised at $7,800.
In the monthly mission bulletin, now called The Mountain Top, announcement of
the new symbolism to the elders and sisters began with these words; "most
people feel something vibrant and inspiring about mountains! Since the beginning
of history, mountains have been used as symbols of the great qualities of human
personalities at their best. Samuel Walter Foss had this in mind when he wrote,
'Bring me men to match my mountains; Bring me men to match my plains; Men
with empires in their purpose and new eras in their brains.' In the welcome
letter sent to new missionaries soon to arrive in the great Canada Vancouver
Mission, the concluding paragraph read: "With excitement we anticipate
your arrival! We urgently need missionaries who will match the mountains of
missionary work and who will master the challenges of teaching the gospel of
Jesus Christ to the people who live beneath the lofty peaks of our beautiful
British Columbia. Come now, and join our valiant band of Mountain-top
Missionaries!"
While contemplating British Columbia's spectacular scenery, I am reminded of
Nancy's patriarchal blessing which in part reads, "thou shalt enjoy the
splendor of the earth." Surely this blessing found fulfillment as she
and I crisscrossed this magnificent land of incredible beauty during these three
adventurous and eventful mission years. Another part of her blessing stated, "in
thy associations with the Saints, the great minds, even the elite of the earth,
thy life shall be enriched beyond thy fondest hopes." This wonderful
pronouncement leads me to tell about the close association we had with the
missionaries, for whom we developed such a fondness, members and leaders in the
stakes, mission districts and region that we grew to love and for visiting
General Authorities of the Church and their wives from whom we received many
kind words of encouragement and wise counsel.
The call of mission president of course included the prerogative of choosing
two counselors. For my first counselor I chose Keith Moroni Humphreys, who had
recently been released as president of Vancouver Stake and who I had known from
my first mission to Canada in the middle 1950's. I selected Alma Sloan Smith, a
dynamic leader and successful businessman living in the interior city of
Penticton as my second counselor. With President Humprey's profession as a
pharmacist and a name like Moroni, coupled with President Smith who owned a
health food business and whose name was Alma, I thought, "How could I
possibly miss with a combination of spiritual and physical support like that?"
To round out a presidency with brethren whose names reflected books of
Latter-day scripture, President Smith jokingly suggested that I be called The
Pearl of Great Preece. Thinking this to be a bit of a stretch, I declined
the consideration. These personable and dedicated brethren proved valiant over
and over again during the challenging and momentous years which lay ahead.
THE GREAT REFORMATION AND ITS FRUITS REMEMBERED
I found the first few months of my mission very exciting and it appeared that
we had so many things going for us, with one major exception. I felt keenly
disappointed with the number of convert baptisms reported by the missionaries.
Remembering what I had considered a promise at the time of my call, as recorded
in John 4: 35 regarding the "field already for harvest" part I
felt was just not happening. Yes, we were bringing in about the same number of
converts of previous months throughout the mission; however, I had expected far
more baptisms than what we were getting and I became concerned. I decided to
take my problem to the Lord in fervent prayer one evening before retiring.
During the night I had an experience that I shall never forget. I had a dream so
vivid that I knew that I had received a direct answer from the Lord as to why we
were not bringing more people into the church and more importantly, what we
needed to do about it!
In the dream I saw Daisy the cow being milked by our son Stephen in the
little red barn at our little ranch back in Bend, Oregon. With each squeeze of
his hands streams of pure white milk poured out, but instead of into a bucket,
the milk streamed onto the ground. Daisy seemed very upset with what appeared to
her as a waste, prompting me to call for my wife Nancy to hurry and bring some
containers. She came running with several buckets loaded in her arms - all
shapes and sizes, and this time the milk began to stream into the containers;
however, Daisy appeared to be even more upset than before and suddenly refused
to give milk. It wasn't until I glanced down into the pails that I realized the
problem - all of the containers were filthy dirty! Only after we went to
the effort of cleaning out all the buckets did Daisy become content and the milk
resumed flowing. Suddenly the dream ended and I woke up in a start, emotionally
spent and dripping with perspiration.
I knew without question that the dream had special meaning and I earnestly
sought an interpretation from the Lord. As I pondered the various aspects of the
experience, I came to realize that the milk meant the pure gospel of Jesus
Christ being provided for the spiritual nourishment of non-members with whom our
missionaries were meeting. The various containers represented our missionaries
who came to us not only in different physical sizes, but also with a variety of
spiritual backgrounds and preparations. Central to the dream were the unclean
buckets! Our missionaries were not living in a manner that would make it
possible for the Lord to lead and bless them, thus denying the promised harvest
of souls in our mission. Isaiah's admonition to ancient Israel, "Be ye
clean ye that bare the vessels of the Lord", came readily to mind. Also
I could relate to the Book of Mormon prophet Nephi who declared, "Behold
he hath heard my cry by day and he hath given me knowledge by vision in the
night time". (2 Nephi 4: 23-24)
As mission president, I knew it was now my responsibility to prepare the
elders and sisters of the mission. The following morning, I called my two
assistants, Elders Deaton and Jackson, into my office and related my experience
to them. After a lengthy discussion, we decided on a course of action. We would
immediately blitz the entire mission, meeting with all of the missionaries of
the eight zones in special sessions.
We drew up an agenda which included my relating my dream and what it meant, a
special presentation by my two Assistants, followed up with my conducting
personal priesthood interviews with each missionary. The spirit in these
meetings as we traveled from place to place was electrifying. The missionaries
manifested heartfelt sorrow for various acts of confessed transgressions and
infractions of mission rules, coupled with firm resolutions to repent and to
conduct their lives in keeping with their callings as representatives of the
Lord Jesus Christ.
Central to the message we taught the missionaries on these occasions was the
proper understanding of the relationship between the power and
authority of the priesthood they held. While their call as missionaries
provided them with the authority to act in the name of God without the power of
the Holy Ghost, that comes only from righteous living, they would be rendered
helpless in exercising that priesthood and effectively teaching the gospel to
their non-member contacts. The missionaries accepted the challenge to bring
about the necessary changes in their personal lives with solemn commitments to
live the mission rules with exactness. The effort to clean up our buckets, so to
speak, had commenced, launching what would become known as the Great
Reformation of the Canada Vancouver Mission.
Before long the whole picture in the mission changed dramatically. The very
month following these series of zone meetings, convert baptisms in the mission
doubled and in the months to follow they tripled and quadrupled. The harvest
promised by the Lord was being fulfilled as the elders and sisters looked and
acted the part of determined and dedicated Mountain Top Missionaries. Elder Ted
Brewerton, the Regional Representative assigned to our area, attended several of
these zone meetings, expressing praise for our efforts. Following Elder
Brewerton's report to the Missionary Committee of his visit, I received a
complementary letter from Seventy Quorum President, S. Dilworth Young of that
committee in which he commented, "Elder Brewerton observes that your
mission has a high spiritual tone, the missionaries are loyal to you and they
are living the mission rules."
I could cite literally hundreds of instances where non-members' hearts were
touched and their lives changed as a result of the renewed efforts of our
missionaries operating under the influence of the spirit over the next two and
one half years. I'll mention just a few as recorded in my personal journal.
One evening the elders brought a middle-aged man by the name of Al Lawrence
to the mission home to meet the mission president. I'll admit that I was not
very impressed with his unkempt appearance and general demeanor. I didn't
express my true feelings to the missionaries but thought to myself, "Elders
you could do better! What we really need in the church is families." The
unemployed fellow had recently been divorced leaving a wife and five children.
Besides he reeked of alcohol which made his untidy appearance that much more
offensive. A few weeks later I met Al at Church, but this time he was shaven and
better dressed. My attitude toward him changed as positive things seemed to be
happening to Al as the missionaries taught him the gospel and he became involved
in various church activities. It thrilled me to attend Al's baptismal service
some time later and witness his progress in the church. After several months I
was pleasantly surprised to learn that the ward leaders had called Al to the
Elder's quorum presidency, and even more so when he later received the call to
lead the quorum as its president.
During these months, something very exciting was also happening to Al's
former wife and children back in the eastern part of the country where they were
living at the time. Unbeknown to Al and to the rest of us she too had been
contacted by the Mormon missionaries and after a period of investigating, all
members of the family had joined the church. When Al and his former wife heard
about the other joining the church they made contact with each other and over a
period of time got back together and remarried. With a fresh determination
provided by a new perspective which the gospel brought they made their marriage
work this time, bringing about the reuniting of their family.
There is a postscript to the story. Several years later, while living in
Vancouver, Washington, I received the joyful news that when the Vancouver First
Ward was divided, Al was called to serve as the Bishop of the newly formed
Vancouver Second Ward. My thoughts hurtled back to the time when I first met Al
in the mission home and I thought what a profound difference the gospel, in the
hands of dedicated and spiritually prepared missionaries, can make in the lives
of people desiring to make a better life for themselves. I might mention that a
statement I had recently run across, made by Brigham Young describing the worth
of individuals, had a profound effect on my attitude toward all kinds of people
that I met while on my mission. Said he, "The least, the most inferior
person now upon the earth is worth worlds." (Journal of Discourses Vol.
9 p.124)
Another mission conversion story during this time involved a woman by the
name of Ann Oxley and her 17 year old son John who the missionaries had met in
Langley, a suburb of Vancouver. Mrs. Oxley later related to me how for years she
had earnestly sought to find the true church as she, "put up with the
turmoil of the various religions". After prayer one evening, John had a
dream in which he saw two young men all dressed up in suits complete with white
shirts and ties. About a month later while John worked in the yard, Elders
Foster and Hudson, came by and asked if he would be interested in learning about
the restoration of the Lord's church upon the earth. John said it happened
exactly as it did in the dream. John and his mother received the discussions by
the missionaries, culminating in the baptism of these two fine people a short
time later.
Two of our lady missionaries, Brenda Saunders and Nancy Kowalis related an
experience they had at a bus-stop while returning home one afternoon from a
motivational zone meeting at the stake center in Burnaby, a suburb of Vancouver.
A lady and her daughter happened to overhear the sister missionaries discuss the
spiritually uplifting meeting they had attended as they waited for the bus to
come. The sisters talked about various religious topics, including the role of
the Holy Ghost in the conversion process. The woman seem intrigued with what she
heard and shortly joined in the discussion with her comments and questions.
Sister Sanders explains what then happened. "When the bus arrived, we
all boarded, sitting at the front on opposite sides of the aisle. I watched the
woman's facial expressions and felt she was greatly disturbed. At the transfer
spot we disembarked. We had only gone a short way when the woman came running
after us. She asked what had prompted us to talk to her at the bus-stop. We
explained that the Spirit is often able to direct us to those who are ready to
hear our message. With tears in her eyes she indicated that she had been praying
that God would help her with her problems. She felt strongly that our bus-stop
conversation had been the answer to her prayers." The woman was baptized
into the church a short time later. Sister Sanders concluded the account of the
experience by saying, "Seeing this woman find new peace and happiness in
the gospel was one of the choice experiences of my mission."
Elder Fawson in a letter to me as he left the mission field gave this account,
"One of the most outstanding experiences I had on my mission came on a
cold, dark, rain soaked evening. For several days my companion, Elder Woodstock
and I had been working on the law of commitment. Each night in our daily
planning session we committed with the Lord to teach a certain number of people
the following day. (usually four to six.)
Our diligent efforts paid off when we found the Hastings family. We had
committed to teach six discussions on the day we found them. The morning and
afternoon of that frog strangling day went quickly as we taught four people.
With no appointments for the evening, we decided to track as we rode our
ten-speeds into an area we felt impressed to work in. We were soaked to the
bone; my shoes reminded me how wet I was every time I took a step; but nothing
could stop us from keeping our commitment. We had to teach two more people. We
had never failed the Lord and He had never failed us. The fifth door we knocked
on was where the Hastings family lived. Mrs. Hastings was very reluctant to let
us in, but we were persistent. We got in and taught the whole family. They were
all baptized two months later. The oldest son is now preparing for a mission.
Surely this is pure joy! We went on that night filled with the Spirit and met
our commitment to teach one more person after we left the Hastings. Many
glorious experiences like this have made the past two years the greatest of my
life, thus far." (I might mention, parenthetically, that the Elder
Woodstock, spoken of in the story, was one of five of my missionaries who chose
a profession with the Church Educational System following his mission.)
I caught a glimpse of the feelings new converts to the church felt toward the
missionaries who brought them the message of the restored gospel in a weekly
letter from Elder Michael Lewis dated January 2, 1975, which reads in part:
"This Christmas week I've been getting a few cards from people I have
taught in the mission. One in particular touched my heart. It was from the Westgate's, a young couple who joined the Church in Prince George last August.
The note inside read, 'With sincere gratitude for the choice you made to go out
into the world with the precious message of the gospel and to our Heavenly
Father for having created you."
Not to be outdone by my "valiant band of Mountain Top
missionaries", I too had opportunities of teaching the gospel to
individuals seeking the truth. As an example, one the Sunday evening in January
1975, after returning home from church services, I answered a knock at the front
door to the mission home. I invited in this nicely dressed middle aged gentleman
who introduced himself as Alex McCrae.
Alex mentioned that he had read about the church in a missionary tract he had
acquired with the address of the mission home. He announced that he had come to
learn more about what the Mormons believed. I invited Alex into my office where
I explained the fundamentals of the gospel to him. He also expressed an interest
in the picture hanging on my office wall of President Kimball who I testified of
being a latter-day prophet. Alex also asked about the painting hanging near the
fireplace by the famous artist, Harry Anderson, of Christ and the original
Twelve Apostles. I explained that in the church today we also have a quorum of
twelve apostles. He was intrigued by what he saw and heard and after a few weeks
of taking the discussions and a trip to Utah to attend General Conference, Alex
joined the church. From then on he became known as, "the president's
mission home convert".
THE REFORMATION EXTENDED TO LEADERS AND MEMBERS IN THE MISSION REMEMBERED
The "great reformation" as it became known throughout the
mission not only had a profound effect on the missionary proselyting efforts but
also spread to the general membership and leaders in the eight member districts
of the mission, causing remarkable things to happen. Many brothers and sisters
joined the crusade of rendering themselves more fit for the companionship of the
spirit through confessions, subsequent repentance and more righteous conduct of
their personal lives. I will relate a few examples of members bringing their
lives into order and the resultant effect for good that the repentance process,
associated with the reformation, brought about.
Some time before I arrived in the mission field in the fall of 1974, three
members of the church, all holding leadership positions in the Okanagan Valley
had gone into the outdoor theater business together in the city of Osoyoos.
Unfortunately the venture failed leaving unpaid debts amounting to over
$16,000.00 owed to nearly three dozen business establishments located in the
cities of Osoyoos and Pentiction. Credit had been extended to the builders in
order to purchase the materials and equipment necessary to build and run the
theater. Upon arriving in the mission in the fall of 1974 and becoming aware of
the bad feelings that existed toward the church in the area caused by the
reluctance of these few brethren to clear up their debts, I wondered what
responsibilities I had. A Book of Mormon scripture found in Alma 11:2 regarding
the penalty imposed for nonpayment of debts helped me feel justification to
bring my office and calling as mission president to bear in the matter, when
some people questioned whether or not I should get involved in the situation.
To make a long story short, my counselors Keith Humphreys and Al Smith and I
held hearings with the fellows involved, insisting that they take responsibility
for making good on the debts, which they finally agreed to do. President Smith,
who lived in Pentiction, personally contacted each businessman involved and
found them all willing to accept repayment of 50 cents on the dollar. President
Smith reported later that one of the businessmen confessed to him that at the
time he was approached to settle the debt he had jokingly told his wife the if
he ever saw this man Smith again with any money that he would join the Mormon
church. President Smith didn't hold him to the promise but did present the
gentleman with a Book of Mormon and his testimony of its truthfulness.
After the whole matter was resolved weeks later we received thank-you letters
from most of these non-member businessmen applauding our efforts as church
leaders to step in and make things right. Incidentally, one these member
brethren also had a long outstanding debt of $7,000.00 owed to Arthur McCuddy,
the brother I had baptized as a missionary in the area several years previously.
Through our insistence the brother also repaid the debt to Brother McCuddy even
though it meant mortgaging his ranch in order to come up with the money he owed.
With relationships now on the mend in the communities effected, we noticed a
resurgence of missionary success in the area.
About this same time, we encountered another business venture that caused
serious problems all over the mission requiring our attention. It began with the
invention and distribution of a wood stove by a member of the church from Prince
George, in the Caribou District. This inventor/entrepreneur, had engaged in some
shady business practices as he attempted to produce and market his product
throughout the Province of B. C.; he admitted to his mistakes, in due time made
good on promises (with some encouragement) thereby restored peace and good will
in the area among the many members and non-members of the church who had become
involved with the enterprise.
The Okanagan District President, Ron Burnham reported to me in July of 1975
that the so-called reformation movement was having a positive effect on the
members in the Okanagan District. To illustrate, he mentioned that his Elder's
Quorum President, Eugene Tymkiw, found that 60% of his quorum members had been
in to see the branch president in Vernon with transgressions to resolve. I was
also surprised to discover that when the Okanagan District became Vernon Stake
in October of that same year, that my counselors and I had held 39 church courts
in this one district alone over an eight month period. We felt that the
cleansing effect of the reformation helped prepare the members for stakehood. We
also felt pleased that the other seven districts of the mission were
experiencing similar benefits as well from the mission-wide reformation.
STAKEHOOD FOR VANCOUVER ISLAND AND THE OKANAGAN VALLEY REMEMBERED
Perhaps the highlights of my three years as mission president centered around
the creation of the Victoria and Vernon Stakes both occurring within a nine
month period in 1975. In March of that year Elder Boyd K. Packer of the Quorum
of the Twelve Apostles visited the mission to create the Victoria Stake on
Vancouver Island. In order to accommodate the several hundred people wishing to
attend, we held the service in the spacious Capitol Theater. Howard L. Biddulph,
a professor of political science, with a specialty in the Soviet Union, at the
University of Victoria, who had served as district president for the Island two
years previously, became the stake's first president. Incidentally at the
breakup of the Soviet Union years later in the 1990's allowing freedom of
religion in the former Communist Bloc, the church called Howard Biddulph to
serve as the first mission president in the Ukraine. He later chronicled the
spread of the church in the former Soviet Union during his tenure in a book entitled, The Morning Breaks. Howard later taught at the University of Beijing,
China and served in the first LDS District Presidency formed there in November
of 1997 to serve U.S. nationals and members of the church living in mainland
China .
One of the members of the newly organized stake presidency, Robert McCue,
noted in his talk that Brigham Young in 1845 had given consideration to locating
exiled saints of Illinois on Vancouver Island. The Prophet had written "There
are said to be many good locations for settlement on the Pacific, especially
Vancouver Island near the mouth of the Columbia." Not withstanding this
item of interest, members of the church felt overjoyed to have a stake of the
church organized 135 years later on their beloved island.
Just nine months later on October 12, 1975, Elder LeGrand Richards, a member
of the Quorum of Twelve Apostles organized the Okanagan District into the Vernon
Stake, calling Ron Burnham as its first president. I mentioned early in my
history that Ron was just a twelve year-old deacon in the Aaronic Priesthood in
Vernon when I served a mission in the Okanagan Valley some twenty years
previously. I had hoped that before I left the mission we could organize a stake
in the Okanagan; however mainly due to the positive effects of the reformation,
I believe, stakehood came much earlier than expected.
In a talk given at the time of the organization of the Vernon Stake on
October 12, 1975, President Burnham said of me that, "he had never met any
one with more courage". This was in reference to my handling the aforementioned
dishonest business ventures in the mission. While grateful for the
compliment, I nevertheless was a little embarrassed by being singled out. Many
individuals contributed toward creating the spiritual climate which produced the
fruits of the reformation. Just the same, the creation of these two stakes
during my tenure as mission president was for me a source of great personal joy.
I might also mention that at the Saturday evening, October 11th leadership
meeting in the chapel the day before the Vernon Stake organization, the local
Saints served a cake and refreshments and sang a song to Nancy and me, noting
our 20th wedding anniversary.
ELDER LEGRAND RICHARDS - A "MARVELOUS WORK AND A WONDER" REMEMBERED
Following the organization of the Vernon Stake, Elder Richards arranged to
also tour the mission, with a two-fold purpose in mind. The first was to visit
and speak with all of the missionaries in the eight zones scattered throughout
the far flung mission during the daytime and secondly, to speak at
specially-prepared evening firesides to which members and missionaries could
bring their non-member friends. The firesides proved a huge success as hundreds
of members and non-members packed in chapels and halls throughout the province,
spellbound by the rapid fire oratory of this legendary latter-day missionary.
Nancy and I felt it a privilege to briefly share time at the pulpit with him on
these occasions.
Known throughout the church mainly for his missionary zeal, Elder LeGrand
Richards authored several books dealing with bringing the restored gospel to the
attention of non-members of the church; the best known of which is the popular,
"The Marvelous Work and a Wonder". This volume, printed in several
languages and numbering in the millions sold, has brought countless thousands to
the knowledge of the restored truth. Someone said of Elder Richards, "He,
like his book, is a marvelous work and a wonder!." Besides being a
great missionary, Elder Richards was known for his wit and wisdom, despite his
advanced age, which at the time of his involvement in our mission, was in the
early nineties.
I'll share a couple of stories to illustrate this. At the time of the
organization of the Vernon Stake just before I stood to conduct the meeting, he
sitting next to me and noting my apparent nervousness caused by the heavy
responsibility, laid his hand on my knee and recited the following which
relieved the tension: "For every worry under the sun, there is a remedy
or there is none. If there be one hurry and find it. If there is none, never
mind it." Wherever we would go, out of respect for this wonderful old
gentleman, the congregation would rise to its feet. With a huge grin on his
face, he would ask them to be seated with, " You don't need to fuss over
me. I'm just a grown up deacon." Toward the end of his life, one of his
legs had to be removed due to poor circulation and later the other. With
characteristic humor, he quipped, "I would rather die from the feet up
rather than from the head down."
The missionaries deeply appreciated the unique privilege of spending time
with this wonderful Apostle on a personal basis in the zone meetings during the
aforementioned tour of the mission. Something special occurred at one of these
meetings in the little northern town of Terrace, B.C. which I'll long remember
and which I feel reflects the noble character of Elder Richards. The saints in
the city of Prince George, 400 miles to the East of Terrace, which was to be our
next stop, had prepared a big Thanksgiving (Canadian) feast and activities in
Elder Richards' honor that evening. However, due to poor weather conditions, the
plane didn't fly, leaving us stuck in Terrace for the day. Disappointed, but
undaunted, Elder Richards suggested that we celebrate Thanksgiving in the
elder's apartment and eat what we could scrape together from their refrigerator.
So instead of turkey with all the trimmings, we had baloney sandwiches to eat
and Kool-Aid to drink. A warm and joyful spirit prevailed as we engaged Elder
Richard's in lively conversation and story telling during most of the afternoon.
After two or three hours, Elder Richards requested time for a brief nap and
kindly asked the elders if he might use one of their beds. (Later the elder said
that he didn't sleep in the bed for several nights because he had been so
honored to have an Apostle sleep in his bed.) With weather conditions improving
later that evening, we departed on the plane bound for Prince George. The week
we spent traveling with Elder Richards over the length and breadth of our
beloved British Columbia provided spiritually rich and rewarding experiences to
all involved.
OTHER ASSOCIATIONS WITH CHURCH LEADERS REMEMBERED
Every year we had the opportunity to meet with Elder LeGrand Richards and
Elder Franklin D. Richards, of the Seventy, who served as our supervisor, and
the other mission presidents and wives from throughout the Northwest-Alaska,
Seattle and Portland missions-in special seminars. We usually met in Seattle for
these two days of instructions and encouragement from our leaders. As part of
these instructional periods the mission presidents usually gave assigned
presentations. I was honored when after my giving a presentation on teaching,
Elder Franklin D. described it as, "the best he had ever heard on the
subject." This reminds me of a similar compliment he paid Nancy as he and
his wife traveled with Nancy and me on a previous tour of the eight zones of our
mission one summer.
Nancy chose to speak to the elders and sisters on the timely topic of
missionary etiquette and manners. Elder Richards told her it was the best
handing of that particular topic he had ever heard a mission president's wife
give. Incidentally she had included the little verse "Mabel, Mabel strong and
able, don't put your elbows on the table." in her presentation. Later as we
returned to the mission home and sat around the big dining room table eating
lunch and conversing, who should be seen with her elbows on the table? Sister
Richards! The mission staff also seated around the table couldn't wait to, in a
spirit of fun, bring the incident to our attention later on.
Another experience involving Elder and Sister Franklin D. Richards that
wasn't humorous, at least at the time. The Richards, Nancy and I waited one
morning for our flight to leave the Kelowna airport bound for Cranbrook, where
we would meet with the missionaries in the Kootenay District in the afternoon
followed by a meeting with the saints and their non-member friends in a district
fireside that evening.
When Elder Richards saw that we would make the flight in a small 9 passenger
plane he wanted me to make sure that the plane had a co-pilot aboard since that
very week the president of the church had informed the brethren that the policy
for air travel now required a co-pilot aboard on all flights, as a safety
measure. After checking with the agent at the counter, I assured Elder Richards
that a co-pilot would indeed be on the flight. When it came time to board, Elder
and Sister Richard happened to go a little ahead of Nancy and me. As we
approached the aircraft we were surprised to see both of them practically
running back toward us on the tarmac. When I asked if there was something the
matter, he replied, "We can't take that plane, there is no co-pilot on
board." When I asked him if he was really sure, since I had been assured
that there would be one, he replied, "I know because the pilot asked me if
I wanted to ride in the co-pilot's seat!"
My heart sank as I pictured the big gathering of people in Cranbrook
disappointed that no general authority would be there to speak to them. I
scrambled to the flight desk to report the situation. They apologized for the
oversight and assured me that they would absolutely provide a co-pilot for the
flight and for us to go ahead and board the plane. Elder Richards was adamant,
he wouldn't go. When I prevailed upon him to reconsider, he replied, "They
didn't keep their word the last time, I won't trust them again." He further
commented that he didn't want to be known forever as Richard the Disobedient
for not following the counsel of the president of the church if the plane ran
into difficulty. While I could see his point, I could also keenly sense the
disappointment of the people in the Kooteny District if we didn't come.
Not knowing what else to do I decided to make it a matter of prayer. I
stepped behind the building and humbly bowing my head expressed my concern to
Father in Heaven, concluding with "Father, he is after all thy servant and
if we are to fly thou wilt need to soften his heart." Upon joining the
others, I was very relieved when Elder Richards, with a smile on his face
commented, "I feel impressed that everything will be alright. Let's board
the plane." I whispered a little prayer of thanks as we departed on a
trouble free flight to Cranbrook, followed by wonderful and inspirational
meetings with the people of the Kooteny District.
I also recall other valuable counsel Elder Franklin Richards gave to me a few
months after I had arrived in the mission field. I had come into the mission
that October of 1974 with a strong determination to give it my all during these
three years. This commitment led to my foregoing the regular weekly preparation
day. Rather than engaging in some recreation, including doing things with the
family, I would work right through the week instead. Along about April of 1975,
this practice came to light in an interview with Elder Richards which, rather
than to please him as I mistakenly thought it might, prompted a sharp reprimand.
He used this statement from King Benjamin's address in the Book of Mormon to
counsel me, "it is not requisite that a man should run faster than he
has strength...therefore all things must be done in order." (Alma 4: 27) I
discovered the valuable lesson of taking time off to "sharpen the saw"
as it were each week, resulting in my labors becoming more productive.
Frequently I would make and receive calls and/or letters from the brethren in
Salt Lake relative to missionary work and administrative matters. I found them
to be thoughtful and kind, desiring to be of service in moving the work forward.
I remember President Gordon B. Hinckley, then an apostle, calling from Spokane,
Washington, where he had been the stake conference visiting authority, to tell
me that he was willing to attend our mission youth conference one summer. When I
realized the hundreds of miles he would need to drive out of his way, and the
physical and emotional drain this would put him through, I excused him from the
assignment, but thanked him anyway. I have often thought about the high level of
devotion President Hinckley manifested on this occasion by his willingness to
come and the example of dedication this experience taught me.
I also remember another occasion, about halfway through my mission when the
Missionary Committee decided to divest itself of all the large mansion type
mission homes throughout the church, such as ours, and in their place purchase
smaller homes for the mission president and family to live in and to rent space
in a regular office building for administering the missions. One of the reasons
given for selling these mansions was out of fear that the mission president
might be kidnapped and held for ransom. My concern was that our children would
need to attend yet another school since we had moved just before returning back
to Canada. Therefore, I made an appeal to the Missionary Committee to postpone
selling the mission home until after our departure about a year hence. Elder
David B. Haight, a member of the Council of Twelve Apostles, personally called
later to tell me that they would honor my request to not sell until we left. The
fact that Nancy's parents and the Haights were close friend when they both lived
in Chicago, may have influenced his decision to postpone selling the home.
Regardless, we were glad it turned out that way. I deeply appreciated the
sensitivity shown by the brethren on this occasion, and at other times in behalf
of the mission.
Frequently other church authorities from Salt Lake visiting the area for one
purpose or another would come to the mission home for a visit. For instance
Belle Spafford, past General President of the Relief Society, the current
president Barbara Smith, and the past and current presidents of the General
Young Women organization, Florence Jacobson and Ruth Funk traveled to Vancouver
in May of1975 in connection with a convention of the International Conference on
Women, of which they were members. After serving them refreshments and chatting
awhile in the living room, Nancy and I took them on a tour of the mission home,
ending up in the basement where I introduced them to our popular game of box
hockey-a lively activity decidedly different from that they engaged in at the
women's conference, I'm sure. Shortly after returning to home, they wrote letters
of appreciation for the hospitality we had extended to them.
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FAMILY LIFE IN THE MISSION FIELD REMEMBERED
While demanding responsibilities in the mission field occupied much of my time
and energy, I nevertheless tried to keep things in balance by devoting as much
time as I could to my family. Although we had several interesting and fun times
together, If asked today which of them stood out they would probably mention the
Neil Diamond concert and the helicopter ride which I'll briefly highlight before
detailing other events.
When we got wind that Neil Diamond would put on a concert at the PNE, we
purchased tickets to go hear this exciting and popular musician perform in
April,1976. Our son Stephen had introduced our family to Neil's jazzy music when
we lived in Bend and we quickly became some of his most ardent fans. We greatly
enjoyed the evening's lively performance, especially the music he wrote and sang
in the movie we had previously seen and book we had read entitled,
"Jonathan Livingston Seagull".
At an earlier date, we took our family to visit Whistler Mountain, a famous
ski resort located in the mountain range east of Vancouver on a preparation day,
or at least we headed that way when the car broke down. Noticing a helicopter
landing near the garage in the small mountain village of Squamish where the
automobile was being repaired, I forget which of our children suggested that we
ask the pilot to take us for a flight. For the nominal fee of $25.00 the copter
pilot took us on a breathtaking half hour flight over some of the most beautiful
and majestic mountain peaks imaginable and soared down what the poet Robert W.
Service might have called, "the vast corridors of the northern
sky". The pilot even set the plane down momentarily on a glacier peak,
which had us wondering if we might, at any second, suddenly slide off into an
icy oblivion, never to be heard of again. Fortunately we had our camera along to
record the wonderful events of the day; Our pictures now occupy a treasured spot
in our family picture album.
While faithfully writing in my journal during the years of my mission, I made
a point of including some activities and experiences that I especially wanted to
remember which involved our children in a personal way and which also reveals
characteristics of their personalities. I have gleaned information from several
entry excerpts wherein family matters are mentioned, mostly in chronological
order, to become part of my personal history. Occasionally I'll make an
editorial "note" following these entries:
Friday, December 6, 1974: "Tonight we attended the road shows at the
stake center. Our 14-year-old Cathy had a part in First Ward's play. Her friend
Steven Farrance, a crippled boy in a wheelchair with a lot of talent and guts,
wrote the script for the winning play from the New Westminster Ward. We were
shocked and saddened to learn that he died the next morning after the road shows,
which had been given in his honor." Note: Cathy had developed a
friendship with Steve over the years and on a special occasion accompanied him
on a dinner dance date.
Thursday, December15, 1975: "Stephen was called to serve as the
priesthood pianist in addition to being called as 1st counselor in the deacon's
quorum."
Tuesday, December 19, 1975: "These are good days in the
mission home-ones that we will look back on with warm feelings, I'm sure". Note:
I made this comment in connection with the festivities in the mission home as we
entered the holiday season for this first time. Searching for the perfect tree,
decorating the home inside and out, purchasing gifts, listening to music,
attending parties, eating traditional holiday food, romping in the snow,
entertaining friends, etc. all became part of the bright and cherry Christmas
scene. It was particularly good to have David with us since he had been away for
three months in Bend.
Saturday January 4, 1975: "Steve and Cathy start their Headway ski
lessons today on Grouse Mountain." Note: This is the same program that
David had done so well with while we lived on the North Shore last year.
Friday, January 17, 1975: "Tonight Nancy and I went with Cathy over to
the stake Patriarch Bern Dawe's for her patriarchal blessing. She is just 14 but
mature in many ways as indicated by her fasting in preparation for the blessing,
all on her own. The blessing was very special bringing tears to all of our eyes,
including Brother Dawe." Note: I thought it was interesting that
at the conclusion of the blessing he dropped his arms to his side and bowing his
head exclaimed, "That was really some blessing wasn't it Cathy?" By
doing so he recognized that the source of inspiration was not him, but the Lord.
February 9. 1975 "Great day of organization of the Victoria Stake on
Vancouver Island with Apostle Elder Packer in attendance. The children came over
with the missionaries and Sister Harnett." Note: I was happy that our
children could be part of this historic event which I hoped they would remember
and appreciate the significance of in later life, perhaps more than now.
Friday, Feb. 28, 1975: "Today Karen Hoof, our Lamanite foster daughter
of five years called from Calgary. This pleased and surprised us"
Note: Shortly after this call, Cathy Peterson, who as a teen-age girl I had
baptized when I was a missionary laboring in the city of Kelowna some 20 years
earlier, got in touch with me at the mission home regarding Karen's future.
Cathy, having graduated from the University of Alberta in Calgary with a degree
in sociology had become a social worker for the church. She soon arranged for
Karen to come back and live with us in the mission home during the last two
years of our mission. At first Karen found the adjustment difficult, having been
away for a few years; however, she quickly came out of her shell and progressed
wonderfully. Among other accomplishments, she filled a two week youth
mini-mission for the stake, serving with Sister Curtis one of our outstanding
full time lady missionaries. We got a kick out of a prank she pulled on Nancy
one evening after she had been out proselyting. She called to say, "This is
Sister Hoof speaking. Would you please come and pick me up?" Nancy hurried
down stairs to go get her only to find that Karen jokingly had placed the call
from downstairs in the mission home.
As the first of our children to get a driver's license, Karen assumed
responsibility for driving our other children to Seminary each morning, which
helped to build her confidence. She also participated in sports, placing first
in swimming the back stroke at a stake sport meet, and playing on the girl's
high school basketball team. Karen faithfully continued to practice playing the
piano. Over the years, she worked hard at whatever she put her mind to and as a
result developed into a lovely young lady. In a humorous vein, during the
Christmas holidays one year, Cathy horrified us by dying Karen's hair blond.
However, Cathy had done a pretty good job and surprisingly made Karen look quite
attractive through it all.
Saturday, March 15, 1975: "Nancy and I spoke at the Victoria
Stake first annual Young Adults Eternal Values Night and banquet. I was
presented with a plaque that read, 'Exemplary Manhood Award from the young
adults of Victoria Stake to President Bruce Preece'. I was overwhelmed!
Something to live up to."
Tuesday, March 25, 1975: "I got a call from Wade Brown in Bend to tell
me that Daisy our milk cow has given birth to a calf, a bull with red hair that
they had named Alfalfa. Had to laugh when Cathy asked if the calf had been born
under the covenant?" Note: A few months after the calf was born Wade
suggested that we sell Daisy because she was just too much for him to handle.
Remembering the profound effect Daisy had had on the course of the mission
through the dream experience, but considering the present circumstances, we
reluctantly authorized him to find a buyer. The Browns kept Alfalfa to raise.
Thursday, March, 28, 1975: "Today we averted what could have been a
major catastrophy in the mission home. Stewart age 8 and a friend built a small
wood fire in a room of the mansion's basement. Fortunately it was discovered and
put out before the flames could engulf the paint cans, and other flammable material stored nearby. Note: While this incident could not be dismissed as
just one where boys will be boys, I felt that they, despite the seriousness of
the situation, didn't intend to do harm and were truly sorry for what happened.
My scolding conveyed a message to them strong enough that I felt certain it
would not happen again.
Monday, April 7, 1975: "Tonight in Family Home Evening we listened to
Cathy tell of her 'fantastic' trip to Salt Lake General Conference as she read
the account from her diary." Note: We were reminded of spotting her on
television as we watched the general conference sessions in the mission home,
noticing that the camera had picked her up while panning the congregation in the
tabernacle. This entry also reminded me of the other occasions our children had
gone on visits outside the mission. Such was the time Karen, Cathy and Steve
traveled to California with the church youth to do baptismal work for the dead
in the Oakland Temple. Also during the summer of 1975 Steve and Stew traveled by
bus to spend 10 days visiting in Bend, Oregon, where we had lived. At another
time Steve accompanied his friend Jimmy McBarron on a camping trip near Yakima,
Washington, for several days.
"This morning Stew looked in the mirror at his short haircut as he got
ready for school. 'Oh well, at least I still have my broad smile left', he
ruefully said." Note: Not long after this experience we allowed our
boys to grow their hair longer in keeping with the custom in Canada of longer
hair.
Saturday, April 26, 1975: "After interviewing all the missionaries in
both zones in Vancouver, Nancy and I arrived home in time to attend the Spring
Sing at the stake center. Cathy and Steve were both in the First Ward
presentation of On Top of Old Smokey which I had recommended that they
perform."
Thursday, May 1, 1975: "Went to see Steve and Stew in their school
musical spring performance. Steve played the 'Sting' on the piano with the high
school stage band, and Stew was a Dutchman." Note: As often as
possible, Nancy and I attended functions at the schools where our kids attended.
Thursday June 26, 1975: "Steve received the seventh grade outstanding
student award from Quilchena Middle School."
Wednesday, June 29, 1975: "Went to the ward primary closing program
tonight. Stew, our 9 year old played a part dressed up as the prophet Nephi in a
puppet show. He did very well." Note: We were surprised and delighted
as he went on and on mostly adlibbing the part.
Friday, July 4, 1975: "To celebrate Independence Day, Nancy read a
little U.S. history in our devotional exercises and Steve stuck an American flag
out of his bedroom window on the 2nd floor of the mission home. We wondered what
our Canadian neighbors thought. My brother Chuck and his wife Jackie who have
been visiting with us from Vernal drove off in their motor home this morning,
making their way to Banff and Lake Louise."
Monday, August 25, 1975: "In our Family Home Evening we bore testimonies
of the truthfulness of the gospel and had a tearful time as we said our goodbyes
to Dave. He will return to Bend having saved $508 as our printer. It has been a
good summer."
Friday, October 3,1975: "Nice to have the family in the bedroom talking
and laughing as Cathy made her flapper dress for Halloween. Steve is composing a
song for his stage band. He practices constantly on the piano or saxophone."
Sunday, October 26, 1975: "Steve went with Sister Harnett to hear Know
Your Religion visitor Joseph McKonkie speak on the Keys of the Kingdom. He is
developing into a real spiritual deacon's quorum president."
Wednesday, November 12, 1975: "Earl Papenfus, the member big game guide
who I had hunted with on several occasions in British Columbia called on me on
his way from Canim Lake to California where he will spend the winter with his
wife, now that moose hunting season is over for the year. " Note: Over
the three year mission period I also had visits in the mission home from other
former hunting companions, including Wayne Olsen, Bob Wagner, Duncan Tidmarsh,
Norm Duce, Walter Johnson, and Sheldon Baker. Even though my 300 Weatherby
Magnum (nicknamed "Tigertail"), gathered dust in a gun cabinet in
Bend, Oregon, I nevertheless enjoyed reminiscing old times with these fellows on
occasion.
Monday, November 19, 1975: "Cathy showed us a suit she had made for
herself but when it didn't fit very well she gave it to Steve to wear. He even
wore it to church. Brave deacon quorum president! What will this girl do
next?"
Friday, Dec. 5, 1975: "We went with Steve to get his patriarchal
blessing from Brother Dawe tonight. He advised Steve to choose good friends and
that he and his wife and family would be happy and have a good
relationship." Note: This part of the blessing has certainly found fulfillment
as we observe his relationship with Martina, Jasper and Erika over
the years.
Friday, December 19, 1975: "We welcomed Dave home from Bend today to
spend the holidays with us. All of the kids, along with their friends, went out
caroling tonight. They came home with some money donations given to them by
people who appreciated having them come and sing. We had hot chocolate waiting
for them. These really are good days in the mission home."
Tuesday, December 23, 1975: "Went with the kids and their friends from
the ward to Cypress Bowl tobogganing. Stopped off at McDonalds, with the regular
stipulation that they could have all they wanted to eat- up to a dollar.
(standing joke) Tonight we had Cathy's surprise party for her friend Gina who
will leave soon to live in Africa with her family after Christmas. The big
ballroom fairly hummed with music and activity tonight."
Wednesday, December 24, 1975: "T'was the night before Christmas...Had
fun going to Tilford Gardens with the family to see the lights and hear the
Christmas music. Bright and sunny day. Stayed up late playing Risk and box
hockey. Good spirit here in the home."
Thursday, December 25, 1975: "The big day is here! The kids got us up at
6 A.M. and we built a fire in the living room fireplace and opened presents.
Nance gave me the DO IT NOW cross stitching and an electric razor Dave brought
from Bend. I gave Nancy a jogging suit and candles. Cathy got a violin and the
boys ski money. Karen gave me a totem pole and Nancy a necklace she made. Great
thing for her to do. Nance and the girls made dinner. Called President Raymond
Bowers-former mission president- in Salt Lake to thank him and his wife for the
ceramic Christmas tree gift. Fun day."
1976
Saturday, January 24, 1976 : "We took the family to Harrison
Hot Springs on preparation day. We ate lunch at the hotel on the lake and bathed
in the famous hot springs. It was a cold winter day but we had fun. The kids are
good company. In the evening, we went to hear the Know Your Religion speaker,
Dr. Truman Madsen, at the stake center, taking with us a couple who are
investigating the church and who we had earlier invited to dinner. I proceeded Nance and the couple into the chapel where I met and introduced myself to Dr.
Madsen. He said, 'Oh yes, I just met your daughter in the foyer a minute ago'.
It dawned on me later that he had meant Nancy and not Cathy. Gosh, what is this
mission doing to me? ha!"
Sunday, Feb.1, 1976: "Today I interviewed my children. I began my
interview with Stew with the question,' Well, Stew, how do you feel about
things?'" After touching on several different topics and as the interview
wound down he surprised me with a question that sounded strangely familiar,
'Well, Dad, how do you feel about things?' "
Wednesday, Feb. 25, 1976: "Nancy still not well so we missed the
symphony. We found out she is pregnant. We'll keep it a secret as long as
possible." Note: It came as a surprise for us to find out that she
would have a baby since she was nearing her 39th birthday and also a concern
physically since it was 10 years since Stewart's birth. However, we were
delighted with the news and willing to make the necessary adjustments in our
lives as missionaries.
Sunday, Feb.29, 1976: "Cathy's ward Seminary scripture chase team won
the stake finals by beating New Westminster's team 13 to 12. This is really
remarkable since Cathy is the only grade ten student on the team; the other
three are in grade 9. The previous year, as a first year grade nine student,
Cathy was also on the winning team. This year she trained the younger team
members and won the championship for the Vancouver Stake. She is the president
of the First Ward MIA Maids class Ward of which they are all part. We're hoping
that she will not only be fast at finding scriptures, but also living them as
well."
Sunday, March 21, 1976: "Elders Nicols and Garbett picked me up at the
airport and told me about First Ward winning the regional scripture chase
competition. Cathy and the 'Whiz Kids' did it again!"
Sunday, April 11, 1976: "Interviewed the children. Had to get after
Cathy for jabbering in church."
Sunday, April 18, 1976: Steve and my assistant Elder Cummings went out
tracting this afternoon and taught three discussions. He'll make a fine
missionary someday when he has grown a foot or two." Note: "Grown
a foot or two" is a phrase that comes from the missionary song that Steve
had sung at a Vancouver, B.C. Stake priesthood preview program as an
eleven-year-old. Years later at Steve's missionary farewell as a 19 year-old
living in Vancouver, Washington, I mentioned this incident in my remarks.
Thursday, April 22, 1976: "Nancy, Stew and I attended the high school
bands competition tonight. Point Grey won first place. We are mighty proud of
Steve, our 14 year-older, who bangs away as their piano player. It is the first
time Point Grey High School has ever won." Note: The band was also to
play at a concert scheduled at the Kerrisdale arena for the evening of April 27;
However that morning Steve said they would have to dropout because their drummer
had come down sick with the flu. Sensing his disappointment I suggested that
one of my mission staff members, Elder Steven Rolandelli fill in, knowing that
he had played the drums in a high school band prior to his mission. With
everyone in agreement Elder Rolendelli participated. My journal entry for the
day in part reads", "We were very proud of both our Steves. They
did very well."
Tuesday, May 4, 1976: "This evening we went to hear Steve play at Point
Grey's last concert of the year. Their stage band is really super! People in the
audience loved Steve on the piano. Cathy and Karen off to APYW. Stew remained
home with us. It's a good life!"
Friday, May 14, 1976: "Stew's friend changed his birthday party to a
Saturday when he learned that Stew couldn't come on a Sunday. He stuck to his
principles. As I remember Steve had set an example for him by doing the same
thing about a year ago when he had been invited to a party on Sunday."
Tuesday, May 18, 1976: "Cathy woke up to her 16th birthday. We gave her
$20 for clothes. Her group at APYW gave her a party and Sister Harnett cooked
steaks and baked her a black forest cake. Cathy got $16 from her grandparents in
a card that jokingly asked her if she had heard that the dating age in the
church had been changed from 16 to 18 years of age."
Monday, May 24, 1976: "The whole country is celebrating my wife's 39th
birthday today. (I don't know how old Queen Victoria is.) I gave Nancy a dozen
red roses. Gail Sparrow, a councilor for the Musqueam Indian Reserve near the
mission home, came over this evening to tell us about her trip to Samoa where
she visited one of our sister missionaries who she had gotten close to while
serving here on a mission. She presented Nancy and me with a pair of wood carved
killer whales."
Friday, June 18, 1976: "We traveled to the stake center this evening to
see the play called, 'The Order of Love' , which was based on the Law of
Consecration as practiced by the church in the town of Orderville, Utah, in the
early history of Utah. Cathy was Francis Isadore, one of the lead
characters." Note: Some who attended expressed their opinion that the
production was near professionally done, playing four nights in the stake. Cathy
did a fine job acting her part, nearly stealing the show, in my biased
estimation.
Wednesday, June 23, 1976: "We celebrated Karen's birthday tonight. Also
the youth at church had a party for her and gave her a triple combination. What
a nice thing to do for our Karen."
Friday, July 4. 1976: "Nancy and I flew to the Queen Charlotte Islands
for a zone meeting with the missionaries and church services. We felt a little
sad to think that on this day the nation would be celebrating its 200th birthday
without us; However, as we left the plane, we noticed a flock of eagles proudly
sitting in a grove of evergreen trees nearby. We thought that there were not too
many places in the U.S. where citizens of the country could observe symbols of
the nation as we were doing. We were consoled by the experience."
Wednesday, July 7, 1976: "Cathy told us that she had made a dress for a
lady she had sold a blouse to at Laura Ashleys where she works part time. Brave
girl!" Note: Our sixteen year-old daughter had found a job clerking at
a trendy woman's apparel store called Laura Ashley in downtown Vancouver. Cathy
has always shown a lot of creativity over the years with her sewing, whether it
was making a quilt, altering a suit for her brother, or in so many other
projects she took on.
Thursday, July 22, 1976: "While eating lunch, we were surprised to
receive a bouquet of flowers delivered to our door. The card read, "With
deepest sympathy dear Cathy. Sorry about your father's passing. The card was
signed by a group of friends at school." Note: At first we thought
someone was playing a prank on us, but found out later it was a case of mistaken
identity. Evidently another girl by the same name had lost her father.
Nevertheless, Cathy decided to take advantage of the opportunity by baking a
raisin pie from her recipe book called 'funeral pie by the Pennsylvania
Dutch", a desert traditionally served to mourners. The missionaries in
the home added a humorous touch to the occasion by dressing up as mourners,
providing a make believe casket and march music to match. A little goulash but
all in good fun.
Tuesday, July 27, 1976: "Took family to Alice Lake in Squamish for
preparation day. Picked up Michael Suiker on the way. We had a fantastic day
swimming, sunning and fishing. We cooked dinner wrapped in cabbage and aluminum
foil, an idea Steve brought back with him from his camping trip to Wapato,
Washington, with his friend Jimmy McBarron."
Monday, August 9, 1976: "We engaged in a variety of activities for FHE
involving the Rust family. We did some fun things with music featuring Cathy on
the violin, Beverly on the flute and Steve on the piano with Pat and Dil
singing. We viewed the film 'Taking Care' produced by the church depicting
Mormon involvement in Canadian history in conjunction with the Canadian
bi-centennial celebration this year. Dil and I contributed stories for our parts
on the program. I recounted our family experience with robbers while camped in
our tent trailer outside New York City and the unusual story of how our friends
the Krikavas met and married." Note: The Rusts, Dilworth, Pat, Nancy's
sister and their children Beverly, Pam and David, traveling from North Carolina
with their tent trailer and bikes, spent nearly a week with us. We had fun
showing them the sites of the city, including the Japanese Gardens, Queen
Elizabeth Park, Lynn Valley swinging bridge, the University of B.C., and Stanley
Park and its beaches, ending up in Gas Town where we ate dinner at the Spaghetti
Factory.
Friday, September 24, 1976: "Stew said he was approached by a lady while
he and some friends ate at McDonalds. She wanted to have him consider becoming a
clothing model for department stores." Note: We briefly considered the possibility
of sending him to modeling school but with the cost involved and that
our stay in Canada was temporary we decided against pursuing the idea. We also
thought about the long term influence following such a course would have on an
eight year old, and his parents.
Saturday, October 16, 1976: "After taking President Smith to the Airport
I thought I would drop in at the hospital to see how Nancy was getting along. As
I walked in the nurse surprised me with the announcement that Nancy had just
given birth to a baby girl weighing 9 pounds and 6 ounces. She has blond hair
and bright blue eyes. Another Cathy. Mother and daughter doing well, for which
we can be really glad." Note: I had visited the hospital earlier that
morning determined to witness the birth of the baby; however when the hospital
staff assured me that delivery was not imminent, I took President Smith to the
airport, with the understanding that they would call me at the mission home in
time for me to travel the short distance to the Grace hospital and be there at
the time of birth. As I proceeded to don the mask, gown, and booties to enter
the delivery room, I noticed another fellow also getting dressed and asked him
if he too was a new father. He replied, "No, I'm Dr. Pendleton, here to
deliver your baby." As it turned out the nurses had already beat him to it.
I questioned whether or not I should pay him his full fee. ha! In the evening I
presented Nancy with a bouquet of yellow roses.
On October 15, 1976, I had written an article to the missionaries in the
"Mountain Top", our mission newsletter, entitled Thanksliving. An
excerpt reads, "I find my life blessed in so many ways. It was on
Canadian Thanksgiving, 1974, that we arrived in the mission field. This mission
experience, I find can best be described by borrowing the words the Prophet
Joseph Smith used to describe his life, 'I am overwhelmed by the reality of my
experience.' October 11 marks a wedding anniversary for Sister Preece and
me-nineteen years of cherished experiences together, for which I am eternally
grateful. Now the anticipated safe arrival of our baby brings much joy to the
hearts of all of our family members. We appreciate the interest and concern,
coupled with prayers, shown by you thoughtful elders and sisters in behalf of
Sister Preece these past months." The following morning. October 16,
1976, our "Sunny Sara", who the missionaries dubbed our mission
home transfer was born into the world. We felt the name we had chosen for
her was particularly appropriate since her two grandmothers bore the same name,
along with a lovely young recent convert that we admired by the name of Sara
Pawson.
Wednesday, November 3, 1976 "Stew called me on the phone with his voice
disguised saying, 'This is President Carter. Would you like to buy some
peanuts?" Note: On November 1, Jimmy Carter, Georgia peanut farmer, had
beaten Gerald Ford for the presidency. Stew knew I had supported Ford. Had to
hand it to our young son for keeping his humor relevant.
November 6, 1976: We went on over to Point Grey High School for a band
concert tonight. Steve played a couple of solos on the piano with the stage
band. After the performance his music teacher, Mr. Hudson said to me, "How
does it feel to have a genius on your hands?" Note: Even though Steve
had a natural musical gift, it was his persistent hard work practicing that
turned the gift into a talent. For instance at age fourteen his rendition on the
piano of the theme from the movie "Sting" kept toes tapping during the
many times he was asked to perform it, despite the fact that weeks of prior
practice of the piece nearly drove the family buggy. Later we purchased a
saxophone for Steve which he had a great time learning to play.
Tuesday, November 16, 1976 "On a paper which Steve had written for his
English class his teacher had written a comment on the side of the paper, 'Steve
has many interesting ideas which take a sophisticated shape on paper.' "
Friday, November 26, 1976 "We went to the stake center to hear
Steve's seven piece band perform for the church dance that Cathy was in
charge of. I thought the event turned out very well even though I felt the band
was too loud as blood flowed from my ears but I suppose that's what the kids
look for in music these days."
Sunday, Dec. 5, i976: "Gave a blessing to Sara in church today. She
cried mightily all the way through it. Took her for a walk in the umbrellar the
missionaries gave to us as a gift to us for Sara."
Saturday, December 25, 1976: "The magic day started in the master
bedroom with the opening of gifts around our bi-centennial Christmas tree which,
under the direction of Nancy's mother, we had decked out in red white and blue
ribbons in commemoration of our nation's 200th birth year. Stew got a bike,
Nancy-accessories for her dress, Dave a coat, Cathy and Karen hair curling
sticks, money and clothing items for Steve and I received a down/fibre all
season sleeping bag. After opening our gifts in our bedroom the family joined
the mission home staff around the Christmas tree in the foyer of the home to
open exchanged gifts. Turkey Dinner with all the trimmings at 3:00 p.m. with
only the family present since the missionaries and staff went to visit contacts
and friends. Kind of nice to be by ourselves as a family after years of eating
meals with so many people here in the home. In the evening we drove to pick up
Karen's cousin Anna who will stay with us for a week." Note: Nancy's
father, Kenneth, in rather poor health, had been with us in the home all of the
month of December with her mother Florence arriving a few days before Christmas.
Dave came on the 19th of the month from Bend. We had elaborately decorated the
mission home inside and out as usual. On Christmas eve we had gathered in the
living room where we had a Family Home Evening of storytelling and singing
carols, and eating goodies around a roaring fire in the fireplace. We also
enjoyed viewing the light decorated Christmas ships on the inlet near the Lion's
Gate bridge during the holidays. Another memorable holiday season spent in the mission field.
Monday, December 27, 1976: "Cathy came home from work at Laura Ashley's
excitedly recounting an experience she had with a fellow who held up the store
brandishing a knife." Note: She told of this frightening experience
occurring in the late afternoon. A man suddenly pulled a knife on a customer
Cathy was waiting on, threatening to kill her if Cathy didn't give him all the
cash from the till. As the robber fled with about $250, he threatened that if
anyone made a move then a man positioned across the street with a rifle trained
on Cathy's head would kill her. When the police arrived a short time later Cathy
said she was able to give them a good description of the thief; however, we
never did hear whether or not he had been apprehended. I recall jokingly asking
Cathy if she had remembered to ask the fellow the golden questions but I'm not
sure she caught the humor of the remark.
Friday, December 31, 1976: "Sara is doing a lot of gooing and smiling
these days and growing fast!"
1977
Saturday, January 22, 1977: "Steve and I
took Sara for a walk in the umbrollor today. I'm amazed at the congenial nature
and good spirit of our fine son Steve. When we met one of his friends along the
way, he proudly introduced him to his little baby sister. I think I would have
been embarrassed in the same situation when I was his age."
Monday, February 7, 1977: "This evening we went as a family to see the
movie The Hiding Place. It is a story about a Jewish family in Holland during
the Second World War who were put in a concentration camp for hiding Jewish
refugees. There were many lessons of value to our children from the movie which
I tried to use in teaching situations. Sometimes I get overanxious and not as
smart as I should be in raising our children; but at least they know I am in
earnest and want only for their best good."
Friday, February 25, 1977: "This evening we attended the stake road shows.
Vancouver 1st Ward took third place. Our 14 year old Stephen wrote the music for
the production ."
Sunday, March 20, 1977: "Cathy and Stephen were on the winning team for
the stake scripture chase competition. This is three years running for Cathy.
They both received trophies for their efforts."
Tuesday, March 29.1977: "Since it's Spring break, the boys and I decided
to go camping at Squamish. Left excitedly for the mountains which were in
perfect beauty. Took panoramic shot of them with my camera. We fished through
the ice at Brown Lake after visiting Brandywine Falls. Steve cooked dinner in
tinfoil at Alice Lake, where we camped, after which we built a huge bonfire. It
froze during the night but my fiber/down bag met the test. Steve and Stew slept
a little cold. After fishing and hiking and eating lunch we returned home. Had
great fun with the boys but Steve didn't seem as interested as he once did in
camping. His mind is on music, music, music."
Saturday, April 16, 1977: "Today is Sara's 1/2 year birthday. She said
her first word-a very distinct Hi!"
Monday, April 18,1977 "This evening we took the family to Quilchena Park
and flew a kite in the wind using fishing line for string. We also played soft
ball work up on the baseball diamond. Great fun!
Tuesday, April 19, 1977: "Attended Steve's setting apart as Teacher's
Quorum president by Phil Lewis counselor in the bishopric. Stew and I played
basketball in the church. It was an enjoyable preparation day."
Wednesday , April 28, 1977: "Dave came in on the plane from Seattle
today hoping to go to work for the forest service up north. However the
government cut back funds so it looks like he will go to Ricks for the summer.
He wants to get into computer drafting at the Y."
Monday, May 2, 1977: "We had a FHE where each member of the family told
what they liked about each other. It developed a warm spirit based on the
positive principle and drew us closer one to one another." Note:
I remember this FHE as one of the best we ever had.
Saturday, May 7, 1977: "Cathy and Dave had to work but
Steve, Karen and Stew participated in the stake track meet. Steve got first
in the mile and Karen took a 2nd in the half mile and 3rd in the discus."
Wednesday, May 18, 1977: "Today is Cathy's 17th birthday. We gave her
luggage and Sister McKinnon fixed a lovely dinner of stuffed pork chops and pecan
pie. She bought an expensive camera with the money her Grandmother Brighton sent
her. I also wrote Cathy a poem for her 17th birthday."
Monday, May 30, 1977: "This evening the children interviewed their
seventy -nine-year old grandmother Lella McCoy Preece McNaughton, who is here
visiting with us from Vernal, Utah. She told of her being the 13th child of a
family of 14 children and of the conversion of the family to the gospel in
Alabama. Her mother was baptized while carrying her. She also told of meeting
dad while he was a missionary serving in Alabama and how she rode the stagecoach
to Vernal from Colorado to marry Dad. Mother also told of my being delivered by
a Dr. Gordon Christy in the home at 567 North Vernal Ave. where she still lives.
Mother quoted several poems she had memorized as a youth, and we finished up the
evening by the children playing the piano and all of us singing O' Canada and
the Stars Spangled Banner and America the Beautiful. It was a fun FHE and the
kids loved it. "Mother looks and acts surprisingly young for someone nearly
eighty years old." Note: During Mother's visit I recorded her reciting
the lengthy poem entitled Old Settlers Story, giving my counselors and clerks
copies. She loved being in a mission field setting which rekindled feeling when
she was young, I believe.
Monday, June 6, 1977: "Went with Steve and the Elders to play tennis.
Beautiful sunny and warm day." Note: Mother had earlier given me
birthday money to purchase a nice Head tennis racket. I played with Steve and
the missionary staff every morning that I was in town, mainly for the exercise
but also for fun.
Monday, June 20, 1977: "Took Cath over to Gina Pollings where she will
stay temporarily when we leave the mission. Karen leaves on Wednesday to stay
with the McLeans." Note: In order for Karen, a senior in high school,
to be eligible for a government money grant to attend college she needed to
remain in Canada. We arranged for her to stay with Bishop McLean's family until
she entered BYU in the fall.
Saturday, June 25, 1977: Took an excited Steve and Stew for a ride in the
Jeep." Note: The day before Nancy and I traveled to Seattle where we
bought a brand new blue and white 4-wheel drive Jeep Cherokee for $8,000 which
we would take to our new home in Washington.
Sunday, June 26, 1977: " Steve played the piano for the last time in
church today, his own arrangement of Oh How Lovely Was the Morning. Bid goodbye
to a lot of people today."
Thursday, June 30, 1977: "Went over to get a trailer hitch put on the
Jeep by our long time friend Cliff Thompson. Stopped to pick up Cathy at Laura
Ashley's and went for root beer. The youth who had gone to youth conference with
Steve the previous week came to the mission home and after blindfolding him went
out for pizza."
Note: That Thursday afternoon June 30, 1977, we, Nancy, Steve, Stew, Sara and
I, loaded up the jeep with our personal belongings and made our way to
Vancouver, Washington, where we would accept an offer to stay in the Rod Smith
home until we found a place of our own. David, who had found a job up north
working in a sawmill for the summer and Cathy who would continue working at
Laura Ashley's and living with the Pollings would join us later. Having
concluded this special segment of "Family Life in the Mission field Remembered", I will now pick up writing the remaining regular part of my
personal history as mission president.
ESTABLISHING A CONFERENCE ON THE FAMILY AND FAMILY UNITY MONTH IN THE
PROVINCE OF BRITISH COLUMBIA REMEMBERED
I had just completed holding the first quarterly district conference
meetings in the Okanagan early in January of 1976. As I sat in the Kelowna
airport waiting for my flight back to Vancouver Sunday evening, I happened to
find myself standing near the ticket counter by Bill Bennett, the newly elected
premier of B. C. and resident of Kelowna where he had spent the weekend. When I
introduced myself as a representative of the Mormon Church, he showed interest
in our LDS beliefs and practices especially regarding families. Among other
things I chatted with him about was the idea that many areas in the U.S. had
designated special family months during the year, incorporating a variety of
activities and functions to promote and strengthen the family unit. When I
proposed the possibility of adopting a family unity month in B. C., he seemed
very interested and asked that I send him some materials on the subject that he
could use to discuss this possibility with his cabinet members and others.
A short time after he received the packet of materials I sent, I received a
letter from a government representative indicating that Mr. Bennett had not only
approved the idea of setting up what they termed The Conference on the Family,
of which a family unity month would be part, but also asked me to chair the
whole affair. When my supervisor, Franklin Richards, counseled that I probably
shouldn't accept the assignment due to my time constraints as mission president,
the government contact, Val Anderson, asked me for my recommendations of someone
who I felt could and would chair the huge project. I suggested that they
consider Howard Biddulph, Victoria Stake President and a professor at the
University of Victoria. To make a very long story short, President Biddulph not
only headed up the mammoth undertaking, but did a masterful job of it through
out the year that he served as chairman.
Even though I didn't end up serving as chairman, I with Nancy became
delegates on the Conference On The Family committee. Along with 200 other
delegates from different walks of life throughout the province, we spent an
enjoyable weekend in Victoria attending a variety of meetings and events the
following spring at the initial meeting of the group. Incidentally, I was very
surprised to find that Reverend Wesley Wakefield, the minister who led the
opposition to the church in Penticton, B.C., while I served as a missionary some
20 years before, was also a delegate and he and I even served on the same sub
committee, but this time as friends. I was also surprised when he inquired about
Apostle Hugh B. Brown-by name-who he had met and had been so favorably impressed
with at the time.
A personal journal entry dated Friday, Feb. 25, 1977, reads, "President
Biddulph called today to tell me that the premier of B. C., William Bennett, has
signed a Family Unity Month Proclamation for the province during the month of
May. I also received a letter later from the premier to that effect. Great news!
What started out as a chance meeting with the premier in the Kelowna Airport has
born such wonderful fruit."
I might mention that several of our church members took leading parts in
activities surrounding the Conference on the Family and Family Unity Month
throughout the province in various locales that first and during succeeding
years, providing a wonderful service for the community while at the same time
enhancing the image of the church. We learned later that our close friends Bob
and Lois Rennie represented the city of North Vancouver as delegates to The
Conference On The Family one year.
MY ATTITUDE TOWARD LAMANITES MODIFIED
For several years, I had, with others, worked in behalf of the Indians of the
Northwest, Canada and Alaska in Church Education, Student Placement Program,
community relationships, proselyting, etc., with limited success to show for our
efforts. At one time I had unrealistically entertained the idea that whole or at
least part, native villages would embrace the gospel and in mass join the church
fulfilling what I had interpreted as prophecies for the gathering of Lamanite
Israel. I admit that I left B.C. in the summer of 1974 a bit disillusioned.
When I returned to preside over the Canada Vancouver Mission as president in
the Fall of 1974, I decided in my own mind that the scriptural prophecies
relative to the Lamanites more closely pertained to Mexico, Central and South
America and the Islands of the sea where proselyting among these peoples greatly
prospers and the natives join the church in large numbers. For the Lamanites of
North America, I felt that the prophecy of Jeremiah 3;14-15, one of a city
and two of a family was a more apt description. Our policy toward proselying
the Lamanites reflected this concept as our missionaries included them while
working with all people as regular missionaries rather than exclusively as
Lamanite Missionaries as we once did.
To cite just a few examples of notable Indians who have, over the years,
accepted the gospel individually, could include Robert Morales, who had been an
LDS Indian Seminary student in Duncan on Vancouver Island. After earning a law
degree in Edmonton he returned to work with his own people. Robert also
currently serves in the Victoria Stake Presidency. Then there is my close friend
Rex Curry, Roosevelt, Utah church leader, and Eddy Brown, one of our
missionaries who after acquiring a PhD now serves as the assistant Secretary of
the U. S. Bureau of Indian Affairs in Washington, D.C. Gail Sparrow is another
Indian who has made a mark. She joined the church in 1966 as a teenager then
rose to many leadership positions in the urban Musqueam tribe in Vancouver, B.C.
while in her early twenties. (The September 1997 issue of the Ensign magazine
contains a nice write-up about Gail's recent election as chief of the North
American Musqueam Indian Nation.) I am reminded of my association with the
Musqueam Band by the set of killer whale wall carvings Gail gave to me while
serving as mission president.
While singling out a few instances of North American native Indians that I
know who have accepted and remained true to the gospel, I do not wish to
discount the fact that thousands of active, progressive and respected Native
members of the church can be found in branches and wards scattered across the
United States and Canada who hold fast to the promises of covenant Lamanite
Israel. My love for these people remains.
EXPERIENCES WITH THE MISSIONARIES REMEMBERED
In a journal entry dated July 1, 1976, I wrote, "Had a call from
a lady in Richmond, who with her husband will join the church this weekend. When
I asked her how she had come in contact with the church, she replied with bubbly
enthusiasm, 'The missionaries knocked on our door - it was like a touch out of
heaven to us.'" As I reflect back over the course of these three years,
I too feel that my association with these missionaries was like a touch of
heaven. This is not to say that I didn't face many challenging and sometimes
sad situations dealing with these young spirits but nevertheless retain a
wonderfully warm spot in my heart for all of them. I will recount a few of these
experiences, adding to those already mentioned
Late one night in August of 1976, I received a call from Elders Savage and
Davis, laboring in the interior town of Ashcroft, B.C., requesting urgent
council. A fellow they were teaching had admitted to escaping two years ago from
the Nevada State prison in Las Vegas where he was serving a life sentence on
three counts of murder. Apparently he and the girl, who had helped him to escape
were living together in Ashcroft, hiding from the law under assumed names, at
the time the missionaries had made contact them. As they unfolded the story to
me flashes of a recently reported case in Texas where two Mormon missionaries
had been hacked to pieces with a knife by a demented contact suddenly came to
mind, and I told the missionaries not to even consider returning to visit the
fellow, but to call and wait for the RCMP to place the couple in custody.
Shortly after my call the mounted police arrived and arranged to have the
escaped convict carted back to Nevada; however, his girl friend alluded arrest.
Unlike the missionaries in Texas who disregarded their mission president's
advice and paid the price for disobedience with their lives, our two elders
followed council and reaped the blessing of protection. Certainly it would have
soon dawned on the escaped convict that confiding his crime to these two young
men was not the smart thing to do, and having realized his mistake, would have
surely come looking for them with dire consequences resulting.
At a later time, one of the missionaries in this story, Elder Savage, wrote
to me of an incident far different from the one just related. He and his
companion had left the town of Oliver to return the 10 miles to their apartment
in Osoyoos after working all day without achieving much success. He related that
as they rode along in their car he heard a distinct voice tell him to return to
Oliver and check out a "temple referral" (information on visitors at
our various temple sites), located in the glove box of their car. Since this
type of referral usually turned out to be non-productive, Elder Savage briefly
hesitated to follow the instructions he heard. However, knowing the importance
of responding to the promptings of the spirit, the elders turned their car
around, returning to Oliver to search for the address on the referral. He
reported that they found a really "golden family" there to teach
and in a short time baptized all family members into the church.
An entry from my journal dated Tuesday, March 30, 1975, reads: "I had
a difficult time reaching Prince George today as I went to hold a zone meeting
with the missionaries. First, the airport had overbooked the morning flight so I
had to wait and leave at 1:00 P.M. Then that plane developed mechanical problems
so we had to transfer to another. We finally arrived in St. George that evening
in a driving snow storm. Upon touching down at the airport, I commented to the
stewardess on the huge snowfall. She rejoined with, 'Oh, most of that was left
over from last year!' The standing joke for the Prince George and the Caribou
country was '10 months winter and 2 months poor sledding.' " Note:
Winter driving conditions in the province presented difficulty much of the time
for many of the missionaries, especially with those unaccustomed to driving in
the snow and ice. I remember on the morning of a big overnight snowstorm in
Vancouver, nine accidents were reported in before we could ground all mission
vehicles. Also during one cold stretch of bad winter weather three mission
vehicles were completely totaled out. Fortunately, the missionaries in these
accidents received only minor injuries.
Of course most of my associations with missionaries involved those assigned
to labor in the Canadian Vancouver Mission; however, I also had the privilege of
calling and setting apart young men and woman from British Columbia to serve in
other parts of the world. Glenn Miller from Williams Lake was an example. At his
setting apart, I felt impressed to promise him that if he would work diligently
that he would experience great success in the Louisiana mission to which he had
been assigned and moreover that his non-member father would embrace the gospel
in his absence. When I released him two years later Elder Miller joyfully
reported that he had baptized 23 converts-one for every month of his mission up till
then and in a few days he would take his own father down into the waters of
baptism-his 24th convert!
I heard another heartwarming story from Lilly Gulbrandsen of Vanderhoof,
B.C., at the time I set her apart June 1,1976, to serve a full time mission in
Finland. Her father Orin, after going broke selling organs in their hometown in
Minnesota in the 1960's, decided to move his family west seeking new
opportunities. With very little money, but a few horses, some livestock,
chickens and a lot of faith and courage the family decided to travel to Utah the
same way their pioneer ancestors had come west-by horse drawn covered wagons.
As a 10 year old, Lilly rode a horse the entire distance; However, on the
second day out she had to spend time in a hospital as a result of suffering an
injury when kicked by her horse. In order to provide for essentials, the family
sold picture postcards of the family to interested people along the way. She
said that they were prepared to eat their 16 chickens enroute but because of the
generosity of people they met they were able to keep the chickens for the farm
they planned to purchase in Utah. After two and one half months of rigorous travel they arrived at their destination where they remained until immigrating
years later to Canada, homesteading a large tract of land in northern British
Columbia.
After learning of Lilly's background, I had the distinct feeling that she
wouldn't have any problem adjusting to the challenges of missionary work in a
far off land including mastering the Finnish language, thought by some to be the
most difficult of all to learn.
On occasion, missionaries would receive the sad news that loved ones at home
had passed away. When this would happened the church missionary committee,
considering the expense to the family, offered the missionary the option of
either going home to attend the funeral or to remain in the mission field. One
such case involved Elder Paige Farmer from Ogden, Utah, whose mother called me
on the evening of November 10, 1975, with the sad news that her husband had been
killed in a head-on car collision while riding home from work. She asked me if I
would break the devastating news to her son. This proved to be very difficult
for me, especially since Paige had been in the mission field barely two weeks.
Tears streamed down both of our faces as we sat together in my office talking
about the tragedy. At length I asked him to go upstairs to the purple room to
pray about the decision to either go home or to remain in the field. He later
returned to say that he would remain in the mission field and not go home for the
funeral-something he felt his father would want him to do. I commended Elder
Farmer for his dedication and courage before sending him on his way. In all but
one of the half dozen like cases we faced, the missionaries, after making it a
matter of prayer and consulting with family, decided to remain in the mission field.
In the one situation where the missionary did go home to attend his father's
funeral in Downy, California, a rather bizarre and cruel hoax occurred. In a
sinister attempt to extort insurance money from the family, someone, upon
reading about the death in the local newspaper, called the deceased man's wife
pretending to have their missionary son Floyd in their custody, drugged and
demanding a ransom. After getting in touch with Elder Burch, who had since
returned from the funeral to his assignment in Victoria, I then called to assure
Sister Burch that her missionary son was safe and that we would take
precautionary measures to see that he receive adequate protection in these
strange circumstances.
Occasionally a few of these missionaries would become disheartened with their
heavy responsibilities, or for some other reasons would decide to leave the mission field
and go home. I keenly felt the responsibility to try and persuade these discouraged missionaries to remain and complete their missions. Usually
reasoning, coupled with the use of the scriptures, provided the remedy for
helping the distraught elder find reasons to remain and honorably finish his
mission. For instance the passage spoken by the Apostle Paul proved particularly
effective. "I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I
have kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of
righteousness which the Lord, the righteous judge, shall give me at that
day." (2 Timothy 4:7-10) Later in the passage the apostle also speaks
of a missionary companion who deserted him. "Demas hath forsaken me and
having loved this present world and is departed." Not wanting to be
compared to Demas, but to Paul, usually would cause the missionary to rethink
the decision to leave the mission, choosing instead to remain and faithfully
endure to the end.
Another situation comes to mind which involved a product of the Church's
Indian Student Placement Program. This Lamanite missionary had come to us from a
white foster home in southern Alberta but had recently found out that his real
mother, on the Indian reserve, had decided to place his baby brother up for
adoption. This situation, coupled with the fact that she was an alcoholic, his
father had run away from home, another brother had been sent to prison, etc.,
made life seem unbearable for the elder. Even though my heart ached for him, I
knew that there was really not much he could do at home to rectify the
unfortunate situation. I therefore tried to persuade him that remaining in the mission field
would have a more positive effect on conditions there than if he
were to return home, employing what I called the "two edged sword"
concept: You work for the Lord here and he will work for you at home.
Nothing seemed convincing to him, until the scripture that begins the Book of
Mormon flashed into my mind. After reading, "I Nephi, having been born
of goodly parents", to him, I said, "Elder McMaster, even though
you might not be able to say this about your own parents, when you marry and have
children of your own, will they be able to speak of you and your wife as goodly
parents?" Evidently, internalizing this concept, directly from the record
of his own people, provided a long term solution to his concern, since he
remained and completed a very productive mission.
In most of these cases, getting to the bottom of the problem was also helpful
to keeping the missionary in the field. Such was the case with a young elder
from Hillsprings, Alberta, who left the mission on the very same day he arrived.
A few days later, his Bishop from Hillsprings called to say that the elder,
having arrived home, had confided in him the real reason for his not wanting to
stay out. The young man's two front teeth were wide spaced, which in his mind,
would hamper meeting and teaching people in the mission field. Once a local
dentist remedied the problem with temporary filling for now, the elder
confidently returned to become a fine Mountain Top Missionary. Looking back, I
count it a real blessing that only one or two missionaries had to be sent home
with medical releases.
Our missionaries also demonstrated a depth of faith and spiritual maturity
uncommon in people so young and inexperienced. I have selected a few incidents
to illustrate these admirable spiritual qualities of character.
One summer evening in 1975, a member sister called the mission home in
Vancouver from Williams Lake, B.C., requesting a priesthood blessing before an
operation for brain cancer scheduled to take place in a hospital in Vancouver. I
asked two members of my staff to go and give her a blessing. The doctors while
performing the operating the next morning after her arrival were astounded as
they probed inside her skull looking for a non-existent tumor. This, despite the
x-ray charts she brought with her from her home in Williams Lake, clearly showed
the presence of cancer.
On another occasion two of our missionaries enroute to Terrace from Prince
Rupert for a district meeting one wintery morning found themselves skidding out
of control, heading toward a loaded logging truck approaching from the opposite
direction on the windy snow packed road. Recounting the incident to me later,
the elder told how, as they fervently prayed for help, it was as if a giant hand
had reached down guiding their vehicle around the approaching truck, thus
averting a disastrous head-on collision. For many missionaries inexperienced at
driving on icy and snowy roads during the long winters, (several from Polynesia
and California) the Mountain Top Mission presented a particular challenge. I
recall that after a large snow fall one Saturday evening just before Christmas
in Vancouver, I had received reports of 9 accidents before I could ground all
vehicles in the lower mainland. With no serious injuries involved, I was
reminded again how the Lord miraculously protects these young elders and sisters
engaged in his service.
Still on another occasion an elder laboring in the northern part of the
province called to inform me that his companion had been diagnosed by a doctor
to have mononucleosis. A short time later he called to say that he had given a
priesthood blessing to his companion and now he was okay, baffling the doctors
who had diagnosed his condition.
The first of two tours of our mission by the Lamanite Generation, an
entertainment group from BYU of about fifty performers and their chaperones,
provided yet another opportunity for our elders to demonstrate their faith and
priesthood powers. The excitement of greeting the two busloads of Indian youth at
the mission home that February 13, 1975, afternoon quickly turned to soberness
as we discovered more than half the cast had been severely stricken with the
flu. We quickly arranged places for those ill to lie down and receive attention
on all four levels of the spacious mission home.
More soberness swept over us as the certainty of having to cancel the
performance by the group to a sold out house that night began to sink in. "Only
a miracle could save the situation now", someone remarked. With that
suggestion, the elders in the home, combined with the cast members well enough
to move and who held the priesthood began moving from floor to floor
administering to the "sick and afflicted." We took our open
flasks of consecrated olive oil, and a faith and power reminiscent of the time
in church history when the Prophet Joseph Smith and others traveled about the
cities of Nauvoo, Illinois and Montrose, Iowa on the banks of the Mississippi
River attending to the malaria stricken Saints in July of1839. In both case the
end results were the same-the sick rose from their beds of affliction and were
healed. Not only did the performance successfully take place that night in
Vancouver but we also went ahead with the banquet proceeding the show for over
50 tribal leaders from throughout the area. Indeed in the words of President
Spencer W. Kimball, faith does precede the miracle.
Speaking of miracles, I forget who uttered the phrase, "Mormon
missionaries: a modern miracle" but I wholeheartedly agree with it. I
recall an elder writing a letter to me near the end of his mission which
included, "President, have you ever heard of a missionary after two
years absolutely refusing to go home?" and another who commented,
"Just imagine, having this wonderful experience of a mission and having to
pay only $168.00 a month for it!" However, when I sometimes began to
think that these missionaries, most of them still in their teens, were larger
than life spiritual giants I would reflect on the time when one of them, dressed
in his suit, rode off the ferry on Vancouver Island on his bicycle just before
Halloween with a carved pumpkin on his head. Yes, the Lord really does hang
great weight on thin threads! Having this wonderful association with this "valiant
band of Mountain Top Missionaries" greatly enriched my life.
While considered to be a strict mission president by most missionaries as
indicated by their expressions of appreciation during and after their mission
experience, I feel they were pleased to be part of a disciplined and well
ordered mission, and they attributed much of their success to this philosophy.
In addition, my not having to send any missionaries home with dishonorable
releases stemming from moral transgression largely traced to this tight ship
policy, I believe. Prior to this time, I had witnessed several missionaries
leave the mission in disgrace as I served as a counselor in four mission
presidencies. I was determined that it wouldn't happen on my watch and
fortunately it didn't. Most missionaries sought earnestly to "live the
gospel with exactness." (a quote by Brigham Young found in the mission
handbook, which we fondly called our " white bible'." ) I
frequently found myself sharing the counsel with the missionaries to, "work
hard and have fun, rather than the other way around."
MISSION YOUTH CONFERENCES REMEMBERED:
Because of its central location, we held both of the mission youth
conferences during my tenure as mission president in the Okanagan Valley-the
first in the southern end at the city of Naramata in 1975 and the second in
Kamloops to the north in 1976. ( a third had been planned for 1977 but was held
after my departure.) We gave President Smith the responsibility for representing
the mission presidency for all three occasions, since he lived in the interior,
which placed him in a position to give personal direction to the conference
committees.
After he met with the conference youth leaders from the Okanagan District in
charge of the conference scheduled for June of 1975, in Naramata, we then met
together as a mission presidency to discuss the event. Pres. Smith reported that
the youth had proposed the theme for the conference, "More Of Us To
find" which we wondered about until explained. The youth had selected
the theme from a talk entitled Small Acts of Service given by the Prophet
Spencer W. Kimball and reported in the December, 1974, Ensign magazine, part of
which read: "Not only do we 'find' ourselves in terms of acknowledging
guidance in our lives, but the more we serve our fellowmen in appropriate ways,
the more substance there is to our souls. We become more significant individuals
as we serve others. We become more substantive as we serve others-indeed it is
easier to 'find' ourselves because there is more of us to find."
The youth also came up with the wonderful idea of using most of the youth
conference time to serve the community of Naramata performing useful service
projects throughout the city. The Naramata city council warmly welcomed the idea
and under the supervision of the Junior Chamber of Commerce we went a head with
our plans. Some of the projects and activities the more than 300 youth engaged
in included fixing up and painting homes and business places, repairing and/or
tearing down old buildings, cleaning up the city park and picking up litter on
the beaches of the Okanagan Lake. (It was during this last activity that some of
the youth grabbed and dunked me in the water which I tried to good naturedly
call my "second baptism.")
In addition to the service projects there were also workshop presentations by
church leaders, Elder Ted Brewerton, Regional Representative of the Twelve, and
Ardith Kapp, councilor in the General Presidency of the church's Young Woman
organization. We also arranged for Randy Backman, the leader of Bachman Turner
Overdrive, (BTO) one of the hottest rock groups in the U. S. and Canada at the
time, and an active LDS member to attend. I had to chuckle at a comment Randy
made as I drove him to his motel room after one of his workshop presentations on
music. I asked him how he really felt about rock music. He replied,
"Well, some of it is probably okay and some of it is a little raunchy
depending on the particular piece and how it is handled, However, I'll have to
admit that after my concerts I go home and listen to classical music to sort of
cleans my soul."
We were pleased that the church selected our youth conference in a
segment of a film entitled "Taking Care", produced to illustrate LDS
church influence on Canadian history and culture as part of the Canadian
centennial year celebration. Also the church's monthly youth magazine, The New
Era, featured our youth conference in an illustrated article for September of
1975. Nancy, David, Catherine and I drove to Naramata from Vancouver to
participate in the youth conference. When the leaders critiqued the conference
they felt the more of us to find theme of the conference had been met.
The youth seemed to discover that by reaching out to help others they had
internalized Christ's teaching of finding themselves by losing themselves.
About a year later in August of 1976 we held another mission youth
conference, this time in the Indian school near Kamloops. B.C., which turned out
to be quite different from the first-consisting mainly of workshops, games,
outdoor activities, drama productions, dances, etc. Elder Phil Redd, Regional
Representative of the Twelve, attended. With my other children working at summer
jobs, Steve and I drove to Kamloops to participate in this one together. As we
rode along together, I engaged him in a conversation on what it meant to be a
"good boy"-not goody two shoes, sissy type but good in the same way
one would want to be good at swimming, skiing, playing tennis, etc. I felt I
connected with Steve with this reasoning. I quoted Elder Boyd K. Packer who said
that he wasn't ashamed for trying to be a good boy when he was young. Certainly
in his case a good boy turned out to be a great man. I felt that one of the most
important accomplishments of the conference, as far as I was concerned, was the
conversation I had with my son while enroute. I was also glad to see that when
the youth put on a play production of "Saturday's Warrior" at the
conference they involved Steve in a major role.
After returning home, I received a letters from Elder Phillip Redd in which he
expressed appreciation for the conference including, "There was
established there a level of youth confidence in planning and execution that is
without peer in my experience." I gladly passed the compliment on to
the youth and their leaders who had put the conference together.
MY RELEASE AS MISSION PRESIDENT AND OUR FAMILY RETURNING TO THE UNITED STATES
IN JULY OF 1977 REMEMBERED
During the last few weeks of our mission, Nancy and I met in regular rounds
of district meetings with the saints and zone meetings with the missionaries
throughout the mission, taking these opportunities to bid farewell to these
people that we had grown to love and admire so much over the years. We
appreciated the kind words spoken, letters and cards received, gifts given and
parties held in our honor on these and other occasions. I especially felt
grateful for the $200 the missionaries gave to me that I later put toward the
purchase of a fishing boat and motor.
A few days before departing we welcomed the new mission president Steven
Scott and his family into the mission field. Prior to his call, President Scott
managed a bank in Salt Lake City. My journal entry of Wednesday, June 29, 1977,
the day before we departed, reads: "Spent all day orienting the new
mission president. I didn't realize the magnitude of the work until I began to
recall everything I needed to pass on to him. Surely I would have perished if it
hadn't been for the Lord bracing me up and showing the way during these three
years. Wrote some letters and retired dead tired at the end of the day."
On June 30, I received a call from Ron Jolley, the Northwest CES Coordinator,
confirming my assignment as the Coordinator of Seminaries and Institutes of
Religion in Southwest Washington and Associate Director at the Portland
Institute, where I would be officed. While I felt some disappointment at not
returning to Bend, Oregon, nevertheless also had the feeling that there was
purpose for taking this new assignment. That last day I recorded the following
in my journal, "Today I felt a spirit of contentment and joy, believing
that the Lord has accepted my offering of a mission. Times have been difficult
and at times almost impossible, but the joys far offset the times of
sadness." I hoped that the last sentence of the verse I wrote for our
mission song, The Mountains, directed to our missionaries, would also apply to
Nancy and me. "Let me go to the mountains-having answered the call. Let
me finish my mission-after giving my all." I felt that my reward for
the last three years were the last three years.
Having safely located three of our children, Dave, Cathy and Karen, who would
remain in Canada for awhile, the five of us, Nancy, Steve, Stew, Sara and I
loaded up the Jeep Cherokee with our personal belongings and with the moving van
following later, headed for the border. For me it would be a special third time
crossing over from British Columbia into the United States at the Peace Arch
Customs at Blaine, Washington, after having lived in Canada-the first as a young
missionary in 1956, later with CES in 1974 and now in 1977 as a returning
mission president.
I would like to include more information from other Presidents in B.C.
If someone has some information they
would like to have included please send me an email. Richard Funk.
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